BF making me do chores - /lgbt/ (#40357959) [Archived: 520 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/12/2025, 12:05:42 AM No.40357959
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>mtf troon, HRT for 3 years
>Have BF, cute athletic build fag (bi)
>Dating for ~2 years
>Move in together last month
>Start noticing the dishes and laundry piling up
>His apartment was never dirty prior to moving in
>Just start doing without them without thinking about it. Trying to keep the place clean.
>BF starts to comment on how "I'm such a good housewife" and that he "Shouldn't be doing laundry"
>Cage twitches when he mocks me
>Tells me that I'm doing them going forward
>Submissively nod
>Doing laundry, dishes, and vacuuming is gender affirming and kinky
>I want to be a good house wife and wife for him
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Dirty-faced Angel !!EGHB2Nq62mX
7/12/2025, 12:10:51 AM No.40358011
>>40357959 (OP)
Understand the feeling. I want to as well, but mine wouldn't let me
I'm willing to concede cus he likes feeling useful, and that makes him feel good
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 12:15:29 AM No.40358056
>>40358011
That's super adorable as well anonette. Whatever works for the relationship.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 3:29:48 AM No.40359733
Your BF is a tirm(reverse TERF). Supports Transrights, but believes in strict traditional gender roles.

He’s going to want to adopt some younglings and soon. Goodness, I hope you’re ready
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 3:41:05 AM No.40359833
>>40357959 (OP)
Have you picked out a Soap Opera to let yourself melt into while you clean Miss?Not to mention they advertise all the best laundry products
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 3:57:34 AM No.40359992
>>40357959 (OP)
Remember your ABCs.
Always
Be
Cooking
something

Either baking another platter of pastries or making a yummy meal. Even if hubby isn’t around make some E Brownies for yourself to munch on while you read a book or watch your soups
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 5:45:57 AM No.40360833
>>40359833
I've been watching House MD because tranny twitter told me to
>>40359733
He doesn't want kids yet, we have ageplay stuff for now :3 I do want to adopt eventually though, but i want to enjoy me 20s and 30s being a kinky dork
>>40359992
My BF really enjoys cooking special dinners (Steak, seafood, etc), though I do most of the meal prep when it's not something special.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 5:50:01 AM No.40360857
>>40357959 (OP)
these kinda posts make me want to become a transbian despite being straight.
im lazy I don’t wanna be some maid for some dude. i just want to relax. maybe I should just try to go be a transbian and get a mommy gf
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 6:00:36 AM No.40360919
>>40360857
Look, like everything else in life, different strokes for different folks. Not every MTF x cis guy relationship is like this. It works for us, doesn't mean it works for you. I know trans girls in perfectly normal relationships, we are just weirdos and own it.
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 6:02:32 AM No.40360931
>>40360833
>House MD
Malebrained show, find something softer. Soap Operas are just the stereotypical thing only feminine wives watch so everyone will know how much of a lady you are every time they catch a glimpse of you staring down your stories.

Women in the 50s often spent their time not making meals or cleaning baking, and soap operas were designed to be watched while cleaning and also sell you soap
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 6:04:01 AM No.40360944
>>40360857
I think this is a woman post(?), fair warning 50/50 shot any lesbian who wants to ‘take care of you’ is a feeder to some degree and you WILL balloon. Lesbian feeders make Cis Male feeders look like gymbros
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 6:06:15 AM No.40360964
>>40360931
Oh it definitely is and I know it lol
I remember watching Downtown Abbey with my mom growing up. Maybe I'm due for a rewatch :3
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 6:10:19 AM No.40360995
>>40360964
So many people associate traditional feminizing with bimbo, but there’s so much strong wife energy to chase.

Join a book club, get in the habit of watching soaps(they run for decades it is a bottomless pit of content you will never run out), and remember ABC for those affirming vibes in the OP. If you’re doing nothing else, Always Be Cooking
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 6:57:29 AM No.40361401
>>40360964
CBS has Young and the Restless and The Bold and the Beatiful, ABC has General Hospital. Game shows also air during the day.

Goodness, cleaning, watching soaps, eating baked goods, spoiling your hubby, you might be turning into quite the adorable wifey anon
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 7:02:53 AM No.40361436
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my bf makes me go out and wage to pay bills while he games all day
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Dirty-faced Angel !!EGHB2Nq62mX
7/12/2025, 7:26:35 AM No.40361598
>>40358056
Thank you. It's a good thing I'm willing to compromise, because he very much isn't
Being a sociopath, he wants control. I'm obviously not gonna be a doormat, even if he wanted that. Just isn't me
>>40361436
Scored the gamer slob. I'm sorry for you girl
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 7:28:17 AM No.40361610
>>40361436
How did he get you and why are you staying with him? Was he always like this? What are you like as a person?
I need to know all the details so that I can replicate it
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 7:38:00 AM No.40361678
>>40361598
Just stick up for yourself and communicate. I know it sounds like the most obvious thing, but I swear to god people are so bad at communicating in relationships. Talking is OP.

>>40361436
My BFs salary dwarfs mine. He makes ~110k doing user research for a relatively big company. I am a glorified email answerer and make ~65k.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 7:40:31 AM No.40361693
>>40361436
LMAO
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 7:51:06 AM No.40361759
agp thread
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 8:10:31 AM No.40361854
>>40361759
You can enjoy sexual things without being AGP you incel. The thing I enjoy the most about transitioning is not the kinky sex shit, it's being able to look at myself in a mirror and actually smile. It's actually feeling comfortable in my own skin for the first time in my life.
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Dirty-faced Angel !!EGHB2Nq62mX
7/12/2025, 8:32:52 AM No.40361974
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>>40361678
Rest easy, I do, as proven by my activity on this board I'm an outspoken person. I'm usually the one to tell people communication is key
I just don't mind that thing in particular, I know how to handle him and he respects me. I'm the bar other women that would date him have to clear. Also this
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Dirty-faced Angel !!EGHB2Nq62mX
7/12/2025, 8:34:53 AM No.40361991
>>40361854
Please forgive them, they're too retarded (as all believers of Blanchard are) to understand such simple joys
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 8:39:03 AM No.40362010
>>40361974
That's super fucking sweet. Happy for you~
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 8:40:23 AM No.40362021
>>40357959 (OP)
this is what i need but im not trans
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 8:42:17 AM No.40362032
>>40362021
Wish you the best anon, everyone deserves to be loved and happy.
Dirty-faced Angel !!EGHB2Nq62mX
7/12/2025, 10:09:50 AM No.40362600
>>40362010
Thank you! I'm not leaving him and he's not leaving me
>>40362021
Still possible I'd say
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 12:02:05 PM No.40363168
>>40359733
What the fuck he sounds like me

>>40360833
He sounds like me!