What explain the "top shortage" phenomenon?

>>40363787 (OP)
Honestly I haven't noticed it. It's just people being pickier than they are attractive.

>>40363787 (OP)
There's not really a shortage of tops, just a shortage of people who say they're tops and can actually handle what that means. Most people don't want the pressure. Being a top means taking the lead, being confident, reading the room, staying in control. A lot of guys either can't do it or are scared to try. So it's not that there aren't tops it's that no one wants to commit to the role unless they're 100% sure they won't mess it up.

>>40363848
Straight men have insecurities too and they exclusively penetrate.

>>40363871
yeah, and most of them only ‘exclusively penetrate’ because they’re too scared to let go of control. it’s not dominance, it’s insecurity dressed up as masculinity

>>40363787 (OP)
There is no shortage. If anyone needs a short and stocky hairy top with a cnc fetish I'm right here

>>40363787 (OP)
no such thing i have them lined up wanting to fuck me

>>40363904
stop hoarding them >:(

>>40363878
>if you're a man of any orientation and don't wanna get fucked in the ass you're sexist and repress your true feelings
That's why nobody takes gays seriously. You're toxic people. You probably are HIV+ and catched it on purpose because "unprotected sex feels so good!!"

>>40363787 (OP)
Men ugly.
Cock good.

>>40363879
Need

>>40363999
you get so mad because you know it's true. heterosexuals have been taught to repress the shit out of themselves, especially men. yes you're pretty much all insecure and emotionally stunted.

>>40363787 (OP)
there is a shortage of bottoms who arent boring

>>40363787 (OP)
Most gays are actually bisexual and women are simply better for fucking than men are.

>>40363787 (OP)
The mouse model for gay men is actually a model for gay male bottoms specifically.
There has never once been an animal model figured out for recreating "gay male tops" in a lab. Most likely because they don't exist.
Gay couples in real world settings are just bottoms dating each other where one of the bottoms larps as a top as a way to curry favor with the other bottom.

>>40364788
asl?

>>40364981
When the gay mouse exhibits female behavior do regular mice try to fuck it?

>>40363787 (OP)
i feel apart of it is the fear to actually cause harm to other people, and the cultural feeling surrounding it morally. i know this probably isnt talking about bdsm but in bdsm you have to do some downright morally reprehensible things to your sub, and even when its all consensual (which it should be) a lot of people are not really willing to do all that, because they feel it makes them a bit less. worthy of love? as a top ive struggled with this for quite a while. my thoughts here are really jumbled but i hope it makes sense

>>40363787 (OP)
they settle down with str*ight w*men eventually

>>40364988
13
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Israel

>>40363878
I just want a woman to put a collar on me is that so bad

>>40363787 (OP)
A lot of work for a crowd that is mostly just interested in making themselves cum.
Sure they say they want to service their top, but even that ends up being "you tell me everything you want me to do and I'll half ass it". Too many people think bottoming is putting in 0 effort.

>>40365543
this and also forcefem me