whats with trannies becoming retarded as opposed to actually growing and maturing?

They act like preteens to teenagers while being in their mid twenties to late 30s. The most cringy shit like thinking being in a cult is cool or larping as "uwu kawaii" catgirl scene kids.

I'm all for self expression but the average tranny acts like a "I'm 14 and this is deep" emo retard, acting like the world is gonna kill AGP hons who fap to little kids, that no one is as DeEp and iNtelLigeNt as they are.

Genuinely how can someone age backwards? Not all trannies are like this.

Ive seen some pretty well rounded smart people troon out only to become gross pretentious mentally disabled weirdos.

>>40385914 (OP)
i just wanna be cute :3 so what if im 38

>>40385914 (OP)
mental illness makes a person sexy

>>40385914 (OP)
it's conditioning from boards like these and never interacting with cis women irl... also not having many female friends during puberty

>>40385914 (OP)
That's the chronically online for you.

>>40385914 (OP)
>why trannies arrested development
felt alienated during/by puberty so they didn't mature during that period like their peers. their assigned gender role didn't feel right so they likely avoided growing into it, instead just staying as they were. otherwise, they may have taken it on 'falsely', not internalising it, only outwardly conforming to it.
it also goes without saying that a tranny would not have experienced the same pressures as the gender they're transitioning to later in life, meaning they have the learn the hard way. the same way, to some extent, younger versions of that gender did.
weirdness from youngshits is going to be from being treated differently than the members of the gender they transitoned to. although i imaigne it's going to be much less pronounced.

I don't "act retarded" I'm just fucking dumb, some people think I am pretending but then after meet me some time they realize I'm airheaded, I believe my obsession with math is what misleads them

Autism, it's always autism. When they act retarded it's the autism becoming unmasked because they think they found their "true selves" and don't need to hide their autistic traits anymore.

the truth is that most adults are in a state of arrested development because aging isn't enough to develop maturity on its own and many people are functioning at the same level of the average middle schooler regardless of demographic group
people have always been like this and always will be

Can someone explain to me uhhh what they mean by "growing and maturing"? I feel like I could say I know a lot of immature people, but what's the measure for immaturity?

>>40387519
inability to psychologically cope with adulthood and independence
avoidance of basic responsibility, labor, and effort in general both physically and intellectually
lack of understanding of consequences & cause and effect
extreme fight-or-flight overreactions to mild inconveniences (like people who fist fight fast food workers for forgetting their ketchup)

>>40387546
only poor people and protestants abhor leisure

>>40387563
i don't abhor leisure. rest and pleasure have their place in life, i just think people who are terminally avoidant of any work in the slightest are not capable of being functioning adults. like i'm not saying you shouldn't be allowed to play video games, i'm talking about people who tell their roomates they're abusive for asking them to do the dishes. it's an inherently childish way to live

>>40387546
>adulthood and independence
>basic responsibility, labor, and effort in general both physically and intellectually
What if you work multiple jobs but make no/very little money? You wouldn't be able to be "independent" but you would be responsible and hardworking.

>>40387806
Useless question, it applies to people who refuse to work at all despite having the capacity to.

>>40385914 (OP)
They also can't take accountability for anything they've done wrong and will literally go to prison instead of admitting they were wrong to assault someone for example.

>>40387893
Calm down it's not that serious, I was just asking a question

>>40385914 (OP)

Being in a cult is cool as long as there's at least a few fuckable people in it and the orgies aren't weird

>>40387806
responsibility and labor isn't about being employed, plenty of people have jobs and successful careers while still being allergic to putting basic effort into their lives.
being independent isn't about how much money you make or achieving certain landmarks, it is literally just your capacity to think independently and care for yourself on a basic level, or at least attempt to. you can go through the motions of doing what adults do without ever actually learning the lessons that are supposed to shape you into a well rounded adult.
this is why so many people who achieve the societally expected "maturity goals" like choosing a career and getting married and having kids are still mentally manchildren and emotionally unfulfilled. there's nothing wrong with doing any of these things, and they're still a sign of a successful life, but they don't necessarily mean someone has "grown up" on a psychological level.

>>40385914 (OP)
because we never experienced childhood or teenage years as who we truly are plus part of being a woman is getting coddled to oblivion and treated as a child always

>>40390655
>part of being a woman is getting coddled to oblivion and treated as a child always
tbhon, i think a lot of 4chan-using mtfs fetishize the lives of adult women as being basically the same as a widdle baby who can do no wrong, because most of their exposure to womanhood comes from online imageboards full of other men who dislike women, and then when they go outside attempting to pass as female in their day to day lives, a lot of dissonance and anger can arise when they realize that the life of the average woman, especially for ugly and isolated women (which most early hrt mtfs are bound to be, sorry, is actually equally as unpleasant as the life of the average man, and often worse if you are ugly or clocky. and this is the origin of a lot of hon and poon rage for not receiving special treatment at all times.
i think this is part of why transition can be very attractive to some people, both male and female, who have never developed the emotional and social skillset necessary to thrive in adulthood.

>>40390336
what are you, a 14yr who just discovered satanism and porn? most people grow out of that mentality once they move out of their parents house
>>40390704
damn you said it best

>>40390704
> men who dislike women
don't exist they are extremely rare even here
>equally as unpleasant
do women get circumcised or forced to serve in the army in first world countries ? women are never as cruel as women or men toward other males . women can still be silly and childish and at best get mocked or laughed but with males it can lead toward death and so many other things . denial never fixed anything specially when it comes to this topic

>>40390990
lol, ok, women never experience physical danger for being women, femicide & rape do not exist

>>40391050
men are more likely to be raped and be victims of violent crimes so femicide is bullshit its just violent crimes that happened against women . men don't have a collective identity like women and the term femicide proves that females have a hivemind and are projecting the same trait onto men due to their inherent narcissism

>>40385914 (OP)
A large portion of current trannies fall under the Chris chan archetype, as in they're not transsexual or transgender in the traditional sense, they're simply transitioning for reasons.
In their cases it's a coping delusion brought on by a combination of a failure to launch, autism, narcissism, and projection of their personal flaws onto their sex.
Their warped view of what womanhood is makes them think that they'll wash their hands of their own sins, and their failings will become virtues. That's why they fixate on cartoon lesbian relationships, shit like Life is Strange and Adventure Time. Their goal is to forever be a little girl in a relationship with another little girl.
The problem that trannies face is that they've been encouraged to turn themselves into a monolith and engage in tribalism such that they legitimize these people even though they loathe them largely and attack people who would ordinarily be against them specifically. Essentially the powers that be have tricked trannies at large into making themselves look bad by association. Most other groups kind of figure this out even if subconciously but trannies can't seem to do it.

>>40391114
>men are more likely to be raped
factually untrue
>so femicide is bullshit
?? your argument doesn't line up with your conclusion, men are more likely to be victims of violence so targeted violence towards women doesn't exist? that's not how that works. you might as well say "most people like oranges so apples aren't real"
>men don't have a collective identity like women and the term femicide proves that females have a hivemind and are projecting the same trait onto men due to their inherent narcissism
i dont even feel the need to respond to this you're just schizo lol
how many steps did you take today?

>>40391119
no a decent (and growing) amount of trannies have figured it out, the problem is we cant do shit about the fact our condition/lifestyle is being hijaked by a broader leftist movement to normalize and equalize absolutely everything

>>40391179
10 years too late sis

>>40391119
trick themselves ? they are uber heterosexual males they project typical male idealization of women onto all women . " if i am a good person then i can not be a man because only women are good " that pretty much sums up transbians and the ones who caused that or the "power that be " are women
>autism
just low status male
>narcissism
you mean like typical women

>>40385914 (OP)
Not a troon, but a 29 year old faggot.
I love "uwu kawaii" shit and I feel like im doing pretty well in life. I have my shit together. Entering my third and final year of law school next month.

The world is an ugly, nasty place. Cuteness is alright. Its only bad if you declare it so. I feel like many troons feel the same way.
All this is to say, you'll pry my cinnamoroll plushie from my cold dead hands you bastards

>>40385914 (OP)
ignore most of these responses.
my theory and belief is that being trans kind of fucks you up and your ideas of what needs to be kept inside or expressed.

i think whether your a youngshit, midshit, or oldshit, you get kinda of fucked up regardless but in different ways. I can't speak for the others, but i transitioned at 19 after repping since i figured it out at 16. repping really fucked me up and i felt very 'locked down' and like i had to pretend to be someone else and play a character.

when i went to college and got on hrt, it was so freeing and liberating that I kind of overcompensated for all those years hiding by being WAYY too open for like a year or two. I wore cringey stuff, didnt look good, posted cringe stuff on instagram, pushed people away etc. I kind of lost my self awareness for awhile. Eventually, I met some more 'normal' friends, tranny or not, who transitioned before me, and I got a bf, and i calmed down. Now i pass alot better and am much more reserved.

so what im getting at is that hiding yourself sucks, and when you start transitioning, you overcompensate and lose some self awareness and do weird shit. for most people I think they grow out of it and then go to live normal-ish lives. your just seeing all the <5 year weirdos who are the loudest.

just my thoughts

>>40391179
never once seen a rational tranny have a debate or be stopped by a rational tranny friend of theirs while sperging out during a debate.
They act as a monolith and just allow each other to be screaming banshees, either joining in or doing nothing to de-escalate their tranny friends.

>>40385914 (OP)
idk man, I've got a job and a husband and some pets. I came to this board a few years ago to try to connect with other trans women and found that they were nothing like me. this was disappointing because I met a few trans people over 10 years ago from /cd/ and they were mostly normal.