why don't gay men want relationships?

>>40398095 (OP)
a lot of us do!
it's just that boomer gays were all like "yeah well if you guys hate us so much then fuck your rules we dont need to get married and are above your silly heteronormative lifestyles n shiet, niggas"
gen-x gays mimicked this mindset and it has led to a hedonistic streak + hookup culture that has persisted in the gay community to this day

IW ANT BF I WANT B FI WANT BF
I AM FOREVER ALONE BECUASE IM UGLY AND LIVE IN SHITTY 4 MILLION POPULATION COUNTRY

>>40398095 (OP)
it is just so unbelievably stupid-easy to get laid as a guy looking for guys. No body type is a dealbreaker. Dick size? You'll find fans whether tiny, small, average, big, huge, etc. An ugly face? Someone will still have you, a fair amount even. Don't even have a dick (like FtM, intersex, etc.)? oh well, if you look enough like a dude otherwise some gay dudes won't give a fuck, might even be excited to add a weirdo to their body count. Monogamy and traditional romantic relationships between straight people would be the minority situation if nearly all women threw themselves at nearly all men. You don't have any basic gatekeeping or work to put in to get the keys to the kingdom in the gay world so the incentive to have a standard relationship is just weaker than the infinite hedonistic pleasure train of just fucking a hundred dudes a week forever with little to no effort.

>>40398095 (OP)
NEED BOYFRIEND PLEASE PLEASPLEAS

women live in mortal terror of gay men being allowed to be openly affectionate and intimate - so having an openly gay relationship is a huge social risk - women will start rumors about you that you are a predator, rapist, pedophile etc. to try to destroy you

>>40398329
I want a boyfriend so I can be like.. oh yeah, what are you gonna do, spread rumors that I'm in love? that I have a great relationship with someone I care for? huh? oh those marks, yeah, he really likes giving me them, and I love having them because it lets us know we're eachothers

>>40398095 (OP)
bc I’m too homophobic to been seen with a guy in public

>>40398305
LOL JUST LIVE IN AMERICA LOLOLOLOLOL

>>40398305
>Monogamy and traditional romantic relationships between straight people would be the minority situation if nearly all women threw themselves at nearly all men.
Yah, this is it. A lot of straight men only get into relationships so they finally have semi-regular access to sex. It's why they make terrible boyfriends but froids are too stupid to realize when a guy just wants sex or wants a romantic conneection

A comparable situation occurs with women whereby relationships were historically their only way to get heavy providership so awful women were get married only to not have to pay rent. Now that young women can get a lot of providership being single from just going on dates with several guys on rotation women are skipping out on proper relationships.

>>40398357
no they would start rumors that you are diddling kids and try to turn everyone against you any sort of mistake or social faux pas you make is remembered by women forever
they are irl judges

>>40398605
thats ok i only interact with men

>>40398095 (OP)
i do but i'm retarded and scared of everything

>>40398305
so they don't want relationships because they dont want relationships? That doesn't answer anything.

>>40398616
women exist in every social sphere and will make up shit to get others to hate you - it's all they are trained to do, biologically

>>40398595
>Now that young women can get a lot of providership being single from just going on dates with several guys on rotation
...Or perhaps having a job.

>>40398627
the boys will say "based" to their accusations (we are good friends)

>>40398095 (OP)
Unrionically: because gay men are low EQ. They arrive at basic human insights very late in life. Gays legitimately don't understand the need for companionship until they are over 30, they see people as interchangeable because the differences between people are lost on them. It's a sad existence.
Obligatory not all gays.

>>40398635
you have no idea the depths women will go to to ruin your life if you date other men openly
they are the hitler of homophobia

>>40398676
gay men are incredibly in tune with their emotions - you are judging internet AGPs who larp as HSTS - as if they represent gay men

>>40398696
>you are judging internet AGPs who larp as HSTS
Wasn't talking about trannies.

>>40398618
They don't want relationships because the benefits of a relationship at least superficially seem lesser if you have quick and easy access to sex with a large number of people you find attractive. And men, arguably to their detriment, tend to prioritize sex over more abstract, deeper romantic connections. Idk I think it was really clear in explaining the "why," I don't know how tf you got "they don't want relationships because they don't want relationships" as your takeaway.

>>40398729
tfw no
>deeper romantic connection
bf

>>40398729
>And men, arguably to their detriment, tend to prioritize sex over more abstract, deeper romantic connections
"Arguably". Nature or nurture, this is fucking stupid. Men marry women they despise. Men say indescribably dumb shit and expect approval. Men think love = sex and go from pikachu face to rage when their partner doesn't like to be expendable. Replace all cis men with ftms.

>>40398752
>deeper romantic connection bf

I want it so badly but I'm not sure if I have what it takes.

>>40398634
Diversifying assets.

>>40398634
Women can hold jobs for the last 80yrs now. Their ability to work doesn't explain the rapid drop off in desire for relationships as this drop off is only the last decade or so

>>40398756
and replace all women with fleshlights so in the end it's just a bunch of hairly cuntboys with rubber holes they can't use

>>40399052
>this drop off is only the last decade or so
Smartphones, internet, social media, instant gratification.

>>40398129
This is too real.

>>40398129
>4 MILLION POPULATION
You could become famous so easy in a country like this and then you basically have the entire country as a dating pool

One bad day or weird mood swing and you’ll/he’ll cheat

>>40399206
lol just become famous as FUGLY FAG

>>40399252
>definitely hasn't happened a trillion times
sybau

need racist polchud husband

>>40399085
>Smartphones, internet, social media, instant gratification.
Which all contribute to women having far easier access to providership without commitment

>>40399288
>JUST BECOME FAMOUS TO GET A BF
FUCKING KILL YOURSELF IM A CONSTRUCTION WORKER

>>40399571
OH MY GOD ITS HIM ITS ANON THE GUY WHO MADE THAT TOWER AND SAVED THAT KITTEN STUCK AT THE TOP

>>40399571
Become a politician and make mutually beneficial building contracts and create employment for your community

>>40399329
I'm not a polchud but I am a chuddy twink

>>40399650
cute
we need to adopt kids and save the white race

>>40399638
>Become a politician and make mutually beneficial building contracts and create employment for your community

>>40398095 (OP)
I prefer guys only for sex, that’s why