HRT femboys, did I miss the memo?? - /lgbt/ (#40401222) [Archived: 279 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:25:03 AM No.40401222
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My tranny friends always kept saying that femboys will always grow ugly and that we should at least get on E to stop masculinizing, makes sense, but did I miscalculate? Did they mean it was for already feminine femboys to keep their femininity? Not for trying to be feminine? E has been nothing but negatives so far, my libido dying, shooting blanks, possible shrinkage, growing boobs and somehow made my skin worse even tho it is supposed to work the opposite way??? I’ve never had more acne in my entire life than I do now, despite mw having higher T than an average male has prior to starting E.

Should I stop it? I think I am already too sexually dimorphically male anyways (broad shoulders, square face, hairy, giant ribcage and other brownie genes) and my twinkle death was the moment I hit my (super late) puberty so I probably never had a chance to begin with. It makes me depressed desu, almost dysphoric but still not in a “I want to be a woman” kind of way so I at least can maybe make it as a normal man (sorry troons, not every femboy is a tranny I’ve been in this community for 8+ years already I am still not interested in being a woman).

Ive only beeen on E relatively for a short time so the damage is not severe but it doesn’t make sense to me to continue it if it is only serving me in a bad way (yes I know there are Penis enlargement meds and serms for the boobs but still.. why spend extra money and get nothing?)

What are yall thoughts? Was I retarded for even trying? Was I retarded for getting on E?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:28:42 AM No.40401251
>>40401222 (OP)
If being on E doesn't make you happy you should get off it. You could always get surgery if you find yourself becoming too masculine

Also I'm not into obese people but the man in the picture makes me feel a certain way, sad he's probably gay
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:35:39 AM No.40401311
>>40401222 (OP)
Yeah imo you should get off that shit. If you can't get behind every affect of hrt including shrinkage and boobs you shouldn't be on it, plus hrt can't do anything about your bone structure so its really a non-starter if you aren't dysphoric, already feminine, or willing to drop like 200k on various surgeries. Decide for yourself though, if you really craved femininity badly enough to get on hrt you could be dysphoric. I'm not responsible for a potential John 50 type scenario.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:47:57 AM No.40401413
>>40401251
Too broke unfortunately and probably won't be able to afford it until my 30s and at that point.. why even try?
Good luck finding an obese bf tho
>>40401311
Yeah I figured.. I am like.. half dysphoric but the dysphoria just makes me want to be a feminine petite guy and that depends on the bones which means I am already fucked I guess.. I'll probably need a way to cope. And don't worry I am not a troon I ain't no John 50 victim.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:24:54 AM No.40401715
Bump! I need feedback
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:46:47 AM No.40401875
>>40401715
Why the fuck are you taking hormones and nuking your endocrine system you faggot retard? Just wear cute dresses like normal people and stop fucking yourself up.
I don't care what your tranny friends say, you should use your own fucking judgement what the fuck is wrong with you
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:59:33 AM No.40401958
>>40401875
Wouldn't say I am destroying it, just not the changes I want . I took them to stop masculinizing not cause of my friends and other trannies. Stop getting taller and bigger. The real retardation is that I was coping and refusing to accept that I was already masculine.
>Just wear cute dresses
I don't wanna look like a sissy
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:02:06 AM No.40401978
>>40401958
>I don't wanna look like a sissy
What the fuck do you kids call "a femboy" nowadays? It used to be just that, jesus
Some people do deserve to get castrated by their own hand, really.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:02:13 AM No.40401979
>>40401222 (OP)
We found Sergeant Braphog in the wild. Actual answer to you though you need to get better friends they extremely catty and annoying. Stop hanging out with transbians
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:03:43 AM No.40401991
>>40401979
Also definitely do stop estrogen though unless you absolutely can’t cope or live with yourself in a more masculine form. It seems like you’re definitely still a guy but just walked by dysmorphia and online shit. Unplug from the Internet for a while and focus on yourself.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:20:38 AM No.40402143
>>40401978
When people hear sissy they imagine those old ugly fans without a sense of fashion and are only interested in sex, femboys are the same but young and attractive
Basically the youngshit vs oldshit dynamic but for feminine guys

I don't wanna be a sissy I want to at least be attractive
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:26:24 AM No.40402189
>>40401222 (OP)
I want to watch gloves and this "femboy" bullybuck for dominance
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:31:44 AM No.40402236
>>40401979
Nah I like them, they at least understand me more than other cissoids! And most are honestly straight, if I wasn't so ugly I would have tried my hands at a few of them
>>40401991
>unless you absolutely can’t cope or live with yourself in a more masculine form
This is the problem, I AM masculine and don't wanna live like that.. the problem is that my masculinity is with my genes and bones.. so I am wondering what HRT is for then? What are it's benefits for someone who doesn't want srs/likes his dick a Lil and doesn't want boobs?
This isn't an internet thing I was like this since I can remember, I was happy as a kid being a twink despite my parents situation and where I used to live before getting raped by puberty at 17, I didn't have internet/a device of my own till I turned 16 so if anything having it earlier would have saved me :/
I tried unplugging anyways, every year I would go completely offline for 2 months, the pain is still there and only grew more over the years desu :/
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:34:07 AM No.40402255
>>40402189
Gloves is cool so I hope he wins
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:38:28 AM No.40402290
>>40401222 (OP)
i know hes heavy but he looks like if you let him off the leash outside hed float away
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:42:58 AM No.40402322
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>>40401958
>Stop getting taller and bigger
unless you're a 15 year old, estrogen won't help with this. once puberty has hit puberty has hit. male growth plates fuse later in life than female ones but there still won't be any major changes past 18 to 20. you're better off with a decent skincare and hygiene routine + saving up for a facelift if you wanna stay feminine and youthful long term.
it's not impossible for cis men to look good past 40, you just have to take care of your skin and diet. take swann arlaud for example. he still looks like he's in his 40s, he just doesn't look like an ogre like most men his age do
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:44:28 AM No.40402327
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>>40402322
well maybe that was a bad picture of him, but i think he looks really good for hsi age
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:02:24 AM No.40402446
>>40402322
>stay feminine
This is the problem, I am not feminine, I want to be feminine! That's why I wanted to take HRT in the first place but idk why I just now realized that's not really a thing when ur pretty sexually dimorphic and why I am questioning if I should stay on it long term to maybe get some benefits or not.
Looking good and looking feminine are 2 different aspects, I don't want to look good as a normal man I want to look good as a feminine man
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:42:22 AM No.40403208
>>40401222 (OP)
Groomed award.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:48:49 AM No.40403239
>>40402446
you can still try out getting buff. I've had friends that tried transitioning, it didn't really work out for them and then they tried really leaning into their masculine identity and for some, it really did "fix" them
obviously kind of a point of no return as the testosterone will permanently change you
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:45:16 AM No.40403434
>>40403208
I wasn't groomed dumbass, it was my choice they just pushed me on after delaying it for 2 years
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:47:17 AM No.40403442
>>40403239
I already tried that for a year and a half when I was younger, hated every second of it and I am glad I lost all the muscles I built then, I doubt I would like it if I tried again
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:07:31 PM No.40403483
You could say the point is that the fat you gain is now in areas more like a female.. If you were skinny before this can help hide you masculine frame.

People like to be dramatic and say it does absolutely nothing if its nothing FFS-in-a-bottle, but it really does add a plumpness to your face, improve your hair line, make your skin glow. But yes, it is kind of an extreme process for minimal gain.
kirakishou !!9dCyHba5Iu5
7/16/2025, 12:13:09 PM No.40403501
>>40401222 (OP)
every time you see one of those posts where ppl say they were tricked by all trans, no it was just one or two telling them to start e for aesthetic reasons
in the end you need to take personal responsibility, if you don't see yourself as a woman but want to take hrt then own that responsibility
there are no guarantees and it might not have the effects you think it will
everybody gets older tho
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:31:42 PM No.40403576
>>40403501
I am in no way blaming trannies or my tranny friends, I still love them all they didn't do me no wrong and it was my choice.
I am sorry I did not mean to make it sound like it was their fault, I am just asking about what their POV is and trying to get help in deciding what to do
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kirakishou !!9dCyHba5Iu5
7/16/2025, 12:36:04 PM No.40403596
>>40403576
not now, but later? what if u go all in and then regret it?
all I'm saying is whatever u do has to be 100% ur own decision and responsibility
if it feels like it's more relying on stuff ppl said then maybe reconsider
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:39:21 PM No.40403610
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I'm a HRT femboy with shit genes too. It's doomed if you do, doomed if you don't situation. I advise to stay on HRT, because gender dysphoria doesn't mean you'd want to be a woman, and find solace elsewhere.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:14:29 PM No.40404352
>>40402189
Kek
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:16:02 PM No.40404361
>>40402189
>gloves
who
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gloves !!8pX315gWOU/
7/16/2025, 7:55:00 PM No.40406215
>>40402189
kek
>>40404361
i'm almost always in /ftmg/ and rarely leave it to go to other threads
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:56:02 PM No.40406222
>>40403596
That's what I am trying to ask for, even tho idk what I would regret in this case, maybe shrinkage? That's the biggest problem that could happen I imagine
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:01:54 PM No.40406258
>>40403610
I'm sorry to hear, I know how hard it is :(
May I ask how long you've been on E? Did u get any benefits?
I figured it's a doomed situation either ways I just wanna know if I should even bother or let my body go and maybe focus on other stuff? Cope some other way?
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:14:05 PM No.40406355
>>40401222 (OP)
Everything you want is gonna be like super gradual anon even if you get there your fucked up brain is probably not gonna allow you to see how much your body feminized. Not sure why youre only getting acne on e but it should go away after a while just s second puberty thing. Sex drive should come back and you can cumstack for the loads. But hoenstly idk if its gonna be worth it for you anon.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:39:35 PM No.40406603
>>40406355
What I want is to change my bones and genes and that's not possible unfortunately.. desu I don't care about my sex drive that much anyways it's just possible shrinkage that scares me (already embarrassed about how average I am) and boobs, the question is.. what other forms of feminization will I get from E?
Better hair? I am on Duta + minox
Better skin? Seems the opposite so far
Less body hair? I am a gorilla and I started hrt late it will not really fix it
The only good thing I can think of is body weight redistribution
Nothing else
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:56:08 PM No.40406783
>>40406603
Your hair will change slightly i believe but im not sure the qualitative difference.
Skin should get softer and ideally less blemishes but no guarantee
Body hair will grow slowly and get thinner (won't change facial hair as far as I know)
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:23:19 PM No.40407033
>>40401222 (OP)
i-is he stuck?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:32:28 PM No.40407130
>>40406783
I got duta for hair
I can do skincare for that probably, will never be as soft as a female's without E but oh well
How long would it take for body hair to get thinner and grow less?
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:35:18 PM No.40407152
>>40407033
Doesn't he look so kawaii?