when do you count as "passing"? - /lgbt/ (#40401608) [Archived: 301 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:11:15 AM No.40401608
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weird question but most of the ppl in my life rn think im a cis woman for one reason or another (I know because of how they talk to me about trans people as if im not one of them) but I look at the mirror and I see a man.
I look at my shoulders, my facial structure, etc and it all belongs to a man. I feel like if I posted a picture of myseld here I'd get clocked but, that makes me ask what does it mean to pass? when is a trans woman passing?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:12:15 AM No.40401618
everyone knows you are a man and is humoring you because that's what you expect
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:13:30 AM No.40401631
post pic, i'll be honest
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:14:32 AM No.40401639
>>40401631
he's not going to post an honest, candid picture, and you will never see him in truly illuminating lighting or in motion
trannies are an optical illusion that only works online with anglefraud and filters - irl no tranny passes
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:16:15 AM No.40401650
>>40401618
>>40401639
come up with better material, you're supposed to making me want to kms not make me laugh
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:16:26 AM No.40401651
I count passing as once I never got misgendered IRL in neutral clothes and minimal/no makeup. Because either A I pass or B the entire world including trumpo wackjobs, is in on a conspiracy to humor my gender. In which case I might as well delusion maxx because my perception is the reality I live in
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:19:37 AM No.40401668
>>40401608 (OP)
Passing isn't some binary finish line or hurdle you reach after a set amount of changes or time or something, passing is just something that happens when whoever is perceiving genders you in their head and that's gonna happen a billion times in your life because we are perceived all the time. Which of those times matter is up to you. Why care about what some bitter overscrutinizing internet retards think if you pass where it actually affects you, aka irl?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:24:43 AM No.40401711
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>>40401668
I think I need a couple surgeries desu, but yeah ur answer happens to line up best with my idea of passing.
picrel is me at 40% effort (bqsically my "daily" makeup cuz I dont really go out w/o makeup frying on clothes
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:34:34 AM No.40401795
>>40401608 (OP)
>when is a trans woman passing
when cis women start to ask you about your period or if you've frozen your eggs yet
t. stealth passoid who has to deal with this shit and keep deflecting
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:36:04 AM No.40401803
>>40401795
lol women are fucking with you
you are too autistic to notice
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:38:48 AM No.40401824
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>>40401795
hmm, they do sometimes and I'm like ???? :0
idk I posted what I look like my female friends think im cis too like they don't ask weird stuff like that cuz of professionalism doe.
it kinda surprises me every time :/
I mean its what I wanted but Idk I guess I thought I had to be prettier to pass
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:05:53 AM No.40402003
>>40401803
i confused my gynecologist on the first visit because she couldnt find my cervix to take a pap smear. obv had to tell her

>>40401824
ppl conflate being pretty with passing all the time