How do hons and uglytroons cope? Im ugly as a man and Im early hrt right now but I fear Ill be a neverpasser hon so I just need the copes now to be ready for later
All I ever wanted was to function in society but being ugly is filtering me
>>40402866 (OP)You're barely started and you're already posting shit like this? Jesus
>>40402908I look in the mirror and weep
I started HRT 7 months ago and barely any changes happened and I still look ugly and male
try your absolute best to looksmaxx for a year or two, really give it your all because you might just be able to make the cut. i am a doomer but also human perception can be very flawed, you legitimately cannot trust your senses here.
if you do end up not being attractive enough i recommend you try to minimize your sexual and romantic thoughts/interests. for me this was the most aggravating thing. if i am working or engaging in hobbies i can forget myself but whenever i entertain any notion of love/romance the feeling of being ugly gets intensely inflamed and i can't function for days.
you really just need to carry yourself in a very non-sexual and non-romantic way once everything has failed.
i get high as balls on the really hard days but overall im surviving
If you’re this early in and dooming this hard, you’re already losing.
Be your best self, put your best foot forward, and pay attention to cis women around you. My point here is don’t brainworm yourself and simply do the best that you can do. Maybe some days the best is just doing a little voice training, and maybe others it’s getting fully dressed up. It doesn’t matter how much you’re doing, just that you’re doing something.
I’m a hon (probably a permahon) at a year and seven months, and every single day I have to convince myself not to commit suicide. I kid you not, I spend at least a few hours a day staring at my razor or my painkillers or whatever else I could use to do myself in, all because I’ve brainwormed myself with this site. I don’t pass, and I probably won’t ever pass, but I’d give anything to be ignorant again. If you do have a chance at all, learning to be confident is going to go a long way. Blissful ignorance is your best bet and confidence is charisma. Won’t know how things go unless you try.
Good luck anon. Stay safe out there.
>>40402866 (OP)If you’re ugly as a man why do you think you’d pass lmao this board is wild
>>40403088I’ve seen some of the ugliest neckbeards turn into the prettiest passoids ever. Didn’t happen for me but it happens for some people. The whole metric of “You have to be an attractive male to pass” is bullshit.
Did it occur to you that maybe the last thing someone struggling needs is your fucking negativity? Go take a hike asshole. If you wanna drown some poor anon in negativity go find someone who’s actually asking for it (there are many people like that on this board).
