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Anonymous No.40407552 [Report] >>40407777 >>40407907 >>40411644
Fuck my attention whoring fake-faggot life
Thought I could try not being closeted online because there is no chance in hell I'll ever come out IRL but I just found out unicode doesn't even have a bi flag and won't be adding one either. I think it's genuinely fucking over for me frens ngl
Anonymous No.40407777 [Report]
>>40407552 (OP)
just use the pedo flag bro people will know what you mean
Anonymous No.40407907 [Report] >>40408146
>>40407552 (OP)
Just use a pink, purple, and then blue heart to show that you're bi
Anonymous No.40408146 [Report] >>40409043
>>40407907
Yeah I am currently grappling with how off the colors looks so I ended up in the meantime changing my wallpaper to something vaguely corresponding with the flag color which stupid as it is at least lessened my acute anxiety somewhat.

I might just be subconsciously trying to get "caught" by someone at work. I thought compounding distress over remaining closeted was a fucking meme considering I can still pursue like 2/3 of the people I'm attracted to openly. I dunno, 50% chance I'll change it back before clocking (not like that) in to work tomorrow.
Anonymous No.40409026 [Report] >>40409370
why not just be open about it when relevant? like if people are talking about partners then just mention a same sex ex or something? idk it seems so convoluted for you
Anonymous No.40409043 [Report] >>40409370
>>40408146
stop trying to trick people into engaging in your humiliation fetish
Anonymous No.40409370 [Report] >>40413179
>>40409026
I do bring it up when relevant to a limited scope of friends (ie. "the other friend group", full of autists and queers as opposed to conservatives) and have disclosed it to a couple of past partners. My closest childhood friend (from the "conservative dudebro friend group") is the sort of person that wouldn't necessarily threaten me with the fires of hell but also wouldn't stop pestering me about "getting your T levels checked bro that's a symptom". He has told that to more than a few people even though his gaydar obviously sucks. If I actually got into a romantic gay relationship it would probably be so over though.

Being closeted towards any and all relatives is what likely weighs me down the most. It's just hard to accept that fucking unicode makes me finally confront the fact that "It's not like I'll ever tell anyone I can just occasionally hook up with dudes between real relationships" was not a solid plan for life.
>>40409043
Bold of you to imply this isn't one of the primary reasons this board hasn't died entirely
I really like my new wallpaper though :)
Anonymous No.40411644 [Report] >>40413567
>>40407552 (OP)
what do you gain from "coming out" online though?
Anonymous No.40413179 [Report] >>40413567
>>40409370
i really don't get it, if you want your relatives to know then just come home with a guy or mention you have a bf. that will spread fast all on its own
Anonymous No.40413567 [Report]
>>40411644
Nothing in practice, just a means to cope
>>40413179
I have enough things going on I'd rather not deal with this right now in my life. It boils down to struggling to accept that "I'll just never tell anyone until necessary" might have some downsides. I mean it worked fine for 8 years.