>>40412687playfully mean, like when a friend jokingly makes fun of you
when youre too nice it can come off as fake or even too predictable/boring
think of cake, cake is amazing on the first and second piece but on the 3rd, 4th, and 5th piece it becomes too much and the sweetness starts to make you nauseous and you want something more salty/sour
pay attention to what your chosen girl responds to though, if she's exclusively receptive to wholesome affection/constantly asks for it then you can absolutely go for being constantly nice and be successful, but a lot of the girls i know respond the best to being both kind and lovingly mean