were you ever molested as a child or had sex with an adult?

Ew no

>>40431661 (OP)
wait those lesbian stats are fucking crazy, was this ever reproduced?

>>40431661 (OP)
no. someone did attempt to kidnap me tho but they failed

I have had sex with several other adults, yes. Never molested as a kid though, I wasn't hot enough :(

>>40431661 (OP)
no but I have a really hard time with sex and relationships so sometimes I wonder if maybe something did happen and I don't remember.

>>40431661 (OP)
No. I never even got kissed until I was 19.

Why is the Tomeo study only ever cited by homophobes looking to prove gayness isn't an intrinsic quality?

>>40431788
no
and the tomeo study she made up the numbers - in the study 2/3 of gay men said they knew they were gay before having sex with an older man (she didn't directly ask men if they were molested - just if they had sex with a man 6 years or more older than them) - she changed the results from table to discussion section to say 1/3 of gays knew they were gay before sex with an older man
otherwise all her study proves is gays at some random 2000 pride parade said they had sex with older men but knew they were gay before that sex - and she compared them to college students
(the 7%)
she wrote this as a doctoral thesis at a california school of professional psychology (i.e. zero reputation) and now hilariously is married and practices as a pro-lgbt therapist in Georgia I wanna say even though she's only famous for being used to claim gays were molested into being gay.

Since I was like 10 I wanted to be kidnapped, then by the time I was like 11 or 12 it turned into a kink, it never happens but I still sneak out a lot at night and hope it does, anyway, I got groomed but not molested sadly, I would've given anything though

>>40431661 (OP)
yea. a lot. idk yahh idk

>>40431661 (OP)
No body ever molested me as a child.
I was just naturally fucked up.
I had sex with an adult at 15.

>>40433539
>I had sex with an adult at 15.
the tomeo study considers that molestation automatically

>>40431661 (OP)
Yes. Once by a neighbor and another by a babysitter both teen boys tho. When the time came that I was a teenage boy repping was easy since I was able to psyop myself into rationalizing it as a cause and effect to me having trans thoughts. Thought a lot of it was just because I didn't want to be like the boys that raped me.

>>40433539
>I had sex with an adult at 15.
how much older

>>40431661 (OP)
no I wasn't retarded as a tween and didn't have an inbred family as a child

When about 7 yo I started having sex with a girl classmate who, looking back, was definitely being molested as she knew way too much about sex. It went on and off for years and ended when we were abut 14 when she told me she wanted to stop. Technically she was my first kiss though I never considered it as such lol ...
She eventually came out as a lesbian, and im a suicidemoding trvemoder now. Funny how things turn out. I considered the experience to be a win for a long time, and it definitely helped my confidence with girls desu, but looking back now, I dont think it was good for me.

cont. >>40434195
She also implied to being molested by her cousin, uncle, and possibly even dad, but thats all in retrospect as a kid you dont really have the language yet alone a mental framework to understand shit like this. I do think shes basically fine nowadays. Almost certainly better than me.

>>40433607
24

>>40433547
Probably but oh well, no one would of cared it was a woman.

I did get assaulted i guess but a faggot and a butch dyke, they wanted my big dick, that i would consider molestation yes

>>40431661 (OP)
I've always had a gut feeling that something must've happened to me at a young age, some sort of molestation, but I have no recollection of it. I feel like it would explain a lot of the fears and worries I had growing up, especially when it came to which adults I trusted and which ones I didn't.

I see threads like this every week, yes I was raped when I was four, no it didn't make me gay or trans

>>40431661 (OP)
I'm a man and yes, but not by other men, it was always women. The whole time I was a child women did stuff to me to the point for a very long time I thought it was normal.

>>40431661 (OP)
Related >>>/mu/127095033

>>40433424
>sometimes I wonder if maybe something did happen and I don't remember.
>>40434380
>something must've happened to me at a young age, some sort of molestation, but I have no recollection of it.
stop getting your medical information from daytime soap operas, this stuff is complete bullshit

>>40431661 (OP)
yeah and theres threads about it everyday.
and everyone knows i was i'm done talking about it.
like i said the afterwake of it or ripple from the initial events is much morse than the events themselves.
what bothers me most is how people respond or treat me when they know that, especially people close to me like family.

>>40431661 (OP)
I'm a 25 year old virgin. I've never had anything approaching sex at any point in my life.

>>40431661 (OP)
GIWTWM

>>40431661 (OP)
no but i was neglected by both parents

>>40433479
i don't think gayness is intrinsic in all gays, people are bi and then experiences & genetics dictate which way they'll skew
right now there's a large stigma against being anything but straight and i suppose its easier for lgbt groups to claim it's intrinsic than explain a complicated situation

>>40434640
gayness is intrinsic in all gays and purely genetic
homophobia is learned - and that's what ails you because really you are advocating for conversion therapy and repression

>>40434645
are you sure because i'm bi and pretty sure i could've had a decent life fucking women if my mother hadn't neglected and abused me

>>40434650
you blame women for preferring men? that's on you
women are shitty people but they can't make you like men if you didn't before

>>40434658
where did I say I blame anyone?
>women are shitty people but they can't make you like men if you didn't before
all people are bi with a genetic/hormonal disposition towards one end. Learned experiences push people in a direction

>>40434669
>all people are bi
no, some people are gay
some people don't like the opposite sex at all and never have or could - im sorry you are too homophobic to respect that

I aasume straightness is our most artificial sexual orientation because 90% of cishets I know where raped or molested. Yes I'm a gay tranny and was never molested... It was projection the whole time.

>>40431661 (OP)
No, but I had gay sex numerous times with my cousin when we were 11, and the guilt eats me alive whenever I remember that whilst on some psychoactives.

>>40431661 (OP)
yeah mom molested me and the PE teacher violently sexually abused me
>bi mtf tranny

>>40434669
I agree with this with the caveat that natal feminisation makes a smaller % of people totally, natally gay, the flamer ones with major gayface, it's hard to imagine those guys ever bagging a woman and being able to perform even under cultural duress, they'd just get used as cannon fodder in past centuries

>>40431661 (OP)
when i was a kid i molested adults

no but my father would jerk off in front of me as a child. he was often high out of his mind so i don;t think it was really him who would do it

>>40431661 (OP)
>were you ever molested as a child or had sex with an adult?
Nope, cis bi.

>>40435866
Same kinda lol. In elementary school I would try to kiss female teachers on their hands.

>>40431661 (OP)
Because gay boys are more feminine and sexually attractive to molesters. I don't know why chuds get the cause and effect the wrong way around.

no.
next question.

>>40435858
>>40434645
>>40434658
yeah, I'm not arguing for conversion therapy or saying any part of lgbt is bad. I'm just saying factually most mtf and bi people could have easily been straight, similarly lots of straight people could be bi if there was less stigma

I know having an abusive childhood probably factors in why I want to get far way from malehood but I don't think it necessarily follows that transitioning is the wrong thing to do so long as it's making me feel a little better, which it has been

t. twinky enby femfag

>>40431788
lesbians used to get away with pedophilic acts 100% of the time because lesbian sex wasn't considered "real sex" and therefore no crime happened

>>40434400
Oh gross I didn't need to know that about her, if it's even true

>>40434466
nta but they're right. most people who have a gut feeling are correct. most homosexuals and ESPECIALLY transexuals have been sexually abused around the age their identity forms. in the case of trans people, their identity shatters, think a lesser form of MPD or the like