>finally pass
>Not uncommon to get sexually harassed
How tf do you prevent this and deal when it does happen? I'm male socialized I wasn't built for this

>>40437009 (OP)
Hons suggest calling it "ewphoria" and getting happy that it happened, so deal with it instead of bitching about it.

>>40437009 (OP)
depends on who is sexually harassing you. it's easier to openly confront men (i'm assuming you're talking about cishetero men harassing you) bc society will normally stand with you. but if the person harassing you is a cis woman it wouldn't be so clear. best practice is to ignore it. i'm sorry that's happening to you
>>40437097
i wouldn't have reacted so vociferously to that other OP if it weren't about how she feels she has to lie so much. you can just be a fucking open trans person. some of us don't have a choice but to be that

>>40437009 (OP)
how and where and literally how??? I pass and get she/her everywhere and neither men or women even ask me out or flirt or anything wtf
sexual harassment isn't even real if I've never personally dealt with it

>>40437009 (OP)
it sucks and all you can do is try and manage risk
like by making sure youre with other people if youre out at night

>>40437009 (OP)
i deal with it by not going outside, being extremely visibly trans means people treat u like shit because people are terrible to trannies and passing means people treat you like shit because people are terrible to women. i live in an allegedly progressive area and it was still constant back before i became a shut in, idk how to deal with it properly

>>40437009 (OP)
there's no way to prevent it, its part of being a woman unfortunately, every cisf friend I've ever had has been getting continuously sexually harassed since they were like 12 or 13, shit is sad just avoid men you dont know wherever possible

>>40438274
it depends where you are, when, and what you wear
being alone or at least without a man there, in a busier urban area, bars and stuff nearby, after the sun is down, loitering at all/stopping on a bench or something, on friday or a weekend, with bare legs and heels or cleavage etc., things like that
combine a few of them and you'll get sexualised comments and guys coming up and flirting

>>40438443
flirting and sexual harassment are very different. nta but i've been flirted with, but ive only had someone be creepy towards me once, but not straight up sexual harassment

>>40438443
>being alone or at least without a man there, in a busier urban area, bars and stuff nearby, after the sun is down, loitering at all/stopping on a bench or something, on friday or a weekend, with bare legs and heels or cleavage etc
I've been all of these things at some point or another and still never got anything, wtf am i that hideous