should i try to keep myself a virgin for my (hopefully) future bf? or try to have crazy sex with men online now and (hopefully) get a cute bf in uni

t. cis male
i figured im probably the only bi guy in the world who cares about being a virgin, and most otheres begging to change that lol. also id be kinda disgusted with myself fucking a random man online but the horny is getting to me and id have a chance to live out my kinks

>>40440771 (OP)
I find it very attractive and cute, but I don't know if other men care.

>>40440771 (OP)
>should i try to keep myself a virgin for my (hopefully) future bf?
Yes

What kinda boys do you like?

>>40440771 (OP)
if u wanna have sex with men, go have sex with men.
also it sounds like ur just gay

>>40440771 (OP)
Having experience is good, I don't get the obsession with virgins they aren't going to be a fun lay 9/10 times.

>>40440771 (OP)
Only have crazy sex with men online if those men are me, and then become my bf. Nice little two-in-one deal for you.

But yes, it is cute if you save yourself for a boy you really like desu.

>>40440958
>Only have crazy sex with men online if those men are me, and then become my bf. Nice little two-in-one deal for you.
Where do I sign up for such an offer?

>>40440978
You post your mother's maiden name and address (a discord would be fine too), then end up disappointed when you find out that I'm European, twinkish, and a top.

>>40440922
i really wanna have another cute boy to cwuddle with all day and make out and kiss and maybe cuddle naked and if were getting really spicy frot >.<. i also really love headpats and biting things so hed have to put up with lots of nibbles
unfortunately i only know about 3 people right now and none of them are ^^^

about the 2 other gay men ive met IRL i went full reverse prision gay awooga and scared them away, also they were both bottoms but not the cool kind. i have much more self control now so i should be able to clean up my act

>>40440958
finding men online is rough, especially now with the death of /soc/. ive resorted to reddit but every guy on there is "off", like genuinely dead inside. I much prefer 4chinz men. I got quite the scare when one showed me a picture of himself and it was the most disgusting looking person ive ever seen, imagine literally a reddit mod, and i felt really bad about myself for weeks

>>40440934
i fap to pictures of woman baka. also im not technically KHV, I fooled around with a girl when i was 14 and she offered a bj but i had really bad phimosis (and didnt know about it) and it hurt like hell and kinda screwed up my conception of sex for a while. being super sexual but hating all the traditional "sex" things, plus i couldnt cum properly either lol

>>40441041
>i really wanna have another cute boy to cwuddle with all day and make out and kiss and maybe cuddle naked and if were getting really spicy frot >.<.
Perfect bf...
>unfortunately i only know about 3 people right now and none of them are ^^^
Wya?

>>40441062
britbong

>>40441139
British boys are really cute but I'm an amerimutt sadly…

>>40440771 (OP)
Yes. Your future husband will know because your boymen will be broken. Ruined forever.

>>40441011 (me)
>>40441139
Please tell me that you don't mind travelling down to the continent if you find a boy you really like...

>>40441152
even i was in murica its such a big place,,,
youd still have to take a plan ride from one end to the other

>>40441011
>twinkish, and a top
>disappointed
haha yeah how disappointing...

>>40441204
hi

>>40441204
It's good to be upfront with what I bring to the table! You know what to do if those things seem appealing :3

>>40441041
>i had really bad phimosis
did you get a circumcision?

>>40440771 (OP)
just go for the crazy sex and get bf in uni desu
t. cisg that decided to get bf later but didn't get any

stop saying european and just name the country. its a whole continent

>>40441527
this is what ill do then anon

>>40442019
have fun nonny

>>40441041
> i fap to pictures of woman baka. also im not technically KHV, I fooled around with a girl when i was 14 and she offered a bj but i had really bad phimosis (and didnt know about it) and it hurt like hell and kinda screwed up my conception of sex for a while. being super sexual but hating all the traditional "sex" things, plus i couldnt cum properly either lol
go have sex with a man. we talk after that.

>>40440771 (OP)
I'm in similar boat. Cis bi guy in senior year of uni not bothering with sex until I can date seriously (I want a stable career and to get more in shape before dating; gotta be able to treat and carry the cute girl or guy I fall in love with). It just seems more romantic to reserve sex for serious relationships.

i want my first time to be special
preferably it starts out gentle then increases in intensity until hes kissing me while we frot
then he grabs my hair and plaps me until we finish up :3c

>>40440771 (OP)
Idk I just lost my first kiss yesterday
Probs gonna hold off on the virginity, but there’s no problem with being a bit stubborn in waiting for a good person to lose a first with

>>40442101
ive bascially resigned to myself im not going to have a "career", since im doing compsci. im just going cuz of computer autism and want that uni bf

how do you deal with the possibility youll be working at mcdonalds too?

>>40446108
>how do you deal with the possibility youll be working at mcdonalds too?
I'm compsci too, and yeah, there is that possibility, but I'm pretty optimistic (everyone who meets me tells me I'll have a successful career, I've been consistently programming since I was 12 and my skills are really good, I am graduating with no debt due to a scholarship, I have EU dual-citizenship so I can go get my Master's for free as well, etc).

There's no point in overthinking failure (though I have backup plans in place like finding a local job or joining the military as an officer, just in case things don't turn out how I want).
I'm open to a relationship if the opportunity presents itself, but I think it's just better if I use my twenties to focus on setting up my life for long, stable happiness.