Why do trans men keep falling for this?

>>40449232 (OP)
gaydens aren't the sharpest tools in the box desu
>t. straightden who dies inside when i see a gay ftm hooking up with a "gay" cis man

>>40449232 (OP)
They're women

>>40449232 (OP)
Real answer: finding a partner who see you as a man is hard and demoralizing, whereas finding a hot straight chaser who you can delude yourself into thinking sees you as a man is way way easier.
And when you're getting attention from popular hot guys, it's hard to say no.

>>40449232 (OP)
gaydens aren't attracted irl to actual gay men

The other thing is that gay men will not date you if you don't pass. They just won't.
So if you don't pass, your only option is chasers.

tbf many early transition mtfs also sincerely believe their cis gfs are lesbians

>>40449232 (OP)
Had a pooner friend who had a crush on me. She once told me she would ask me out, if only I stopped being so staunchly heterosexual.

>>40449426
i like men but all the men i find that are gay are not easy on the eyes so to speak. so probably true

>>40449232 (OP)
>a year
How come he hasn't masculinized at all

>>40449555
What are you talking about, he's in wolf cut with septum piercing and other jewelry

>>40449417
I view trans boys as men when they put in the effort. The issue is most of ya'lll refuse to learrn male social mannierisms and have the bodies of bloated butch lesbians.

>>40449565
i honestly feel bad for ftms because if you want to pass as a man you have to intentionally nerf your looks and fashion sense because men suck at fashion/taking care of their appearance in general

>>40449232 (OP)
>septum piercing
every time

>>40449232 (OP)
They're just acting like gay men do. Gay men would also fuck straight men if they could. They're just stupid and brainwormed and don't realize how lucky they are to be able to pull straight men.

>>40449596
at least it's not one of those gargantuan stretched septum rings

>>40449578
being a man is just being ugly or not caring about your appearance and preferring it that way
People like men for being a man: hairy, bald, muscular, skeletal, rich, hardworking, dumb, smart, whatever they are
>I like men that are attractive!
this means the women either wants someone young and energetic, or the woman just loves herself more and wants someone else beautiful to reflect her own vanity

>>40449578
not really, it's entirely possible to pass as male and still be well-kept, hygienic, and fashionable. in fact, most gigapooners are not any of those things, desu.

>>40449674
it's possible sure, just like it's possible to pass as a butch trans woman. it's just a lot harder. the standard for men is unkempt and lazy, just like the standard for women is well looked after

>>40449674
the idea you need to get fat and hairy to pass as male is only true if you have super wide hips and hyperfeminine face, if you have a decently masculine frame and face it's not hard to be slim, take care of yourself, and still pass

>>40449702
Love when poons balloon into GIGA wide-hip lesbians will lil shitty moustaches

>>40449232 (OP)
pre-t poons are pretty stupid in general but pre-t gaydens are particularly...not sharp. that's not to say ones on t are stupid, but i will never understand them
honestly all trans men should probably be t4t or volcels, it's the safest options
>>40449555
not on t, tiktok poons almost never seek out hrt. the trannies are the same in most cases
>>40449702
unfortunately my hip bones are fucked but fortunately i don't have much lower body fat so i'm built like eggman

>>40449433
>early transition mtf
>cis gf
Never seen this shit happen all ive seen is transfems divorcing their ciswifes
>>40449693
Facts desu

>>40449578
I love having long hair but i could only start passing until I cut my hair, I wasn't able to grow decent facial hair yet at the time. People shit on ftms who are feminine but i imagine itd be hard to give up a lot of style choices to be able to pass.

>>40450017
>want to be a man
>don't want to cut your hair
Call me old fashioned buy didn't ftms used to work on pirate ships and join wars

Just do hookups during your early transition

>>40450333
I wanna look like a metalhead

>>40450760
Who do you listen to

>>40449433
Depends on the couple. Unclockable dolls, then yeah its a lesbian relationship, especially after srs.

They still encounter lesbian death bed. Chad needs to dick down both once in a while

>>40449232 (OP)
Honestly as a transmasc chaser, I hate to say this but it's the truth most of us are only into you cause you look like cute shotas. It's kinda like twinks but transmascs often look even younger and cuter. It still only lasts like a couple years masc tho before I have to dump my bf and find another cutie

>>40450872
>masc
Max* sometimes it lasts abit longer if they are on a low dose of T but the agepill always hits eventually and they age out of that look

>>40449702
getting fat when you have wide hips and a feminine face never works. it just makes your face rounder and your hips more pronounced.
to be honest i think most of the unfortunate hyperfem tunapooners should anamode so they look like underweight teen boys but saying that gets you called fembrained so

>>40450333
All men did, now they sit on a mongolian basket weaving forum and cry about black people

>>40450872
>It still only lasts like a couple years masc tho
You're not picking the ones that enjoy androgyny or looking purposely younger. You need to find someone who can do normal doses for a few years before slowing down and poondosing to maintain some cuteness.

>>40451016
my last bf was exactly doing that and enjoyed it, but they still hit twinkdeath around 20 and even though they tried to maintain that look it just didn't really work anymore. and they only did t for half a year so that wasn't it, the truth is that look is only sustainable for so long before they age out of it

>>40450913
Yes fat is for fems ive been saying this

>>40451063
i dont understand this mindset because honestly i don't think most people noticeably age until like their 40s unless you have no skincare routine and even then you're not like a wrinkled old hag you're just an adult who looks like an adult

>>40450802
I don't really listen to metal I just want to have the long hair facial hair and wearing mostly black t shirts and pants

>>40451747
Ok what music do you like

>>40450621
Yes, basically infinite PLAP and bouncing on penises

>>40451747
then why do you wanna look like one. you know when chicks wear metal band shirts but don't know any song? haha

>>40449578
this is just cope. pull yourself by the bootstraps like a man instead of making excuses.

>>40450913
if you drop like £400 on HIFU you can go get your face skin tightened and that may help you pass better. same sorta thing applies to body fat, if youve got too much femme fat cryo lipolysis can fix that for good.

>>40451063
>but they still hit twinkdeath around 20 and even though they tried to maintain that look it just didn't really work anymore.
Sorry to tell you anon, but your ex just let himself go, or was never truly younger looking to begin with. If you're serious maintaining that appearance it should last much longer than 20.
t. 26 and still confused for under 21

>>40449232 (OP)
FUCK trans men are BEAUTIFUL

>>40449890
>the trannies are the same in most cases
straight up not true

>>40454819
Trvthnvke

>>40454818
most people that start out good looking at take care of themselves shouldn't really start to age significantly until late 30's or early 40

>>40449569
he could pass if he dropped the atrocious flamer style it just makes him look troonish regardless of direction