Do they even exist on this board or what?

>>40450176 (OP)
yes hello. i assume trans girls on here all want cis men so i keep my st4t desires quiet.

>>40450271
ffs i didnt realise my trip was on

>>40450271
Most trans men i meet actually fall in into the category of datable unlike 99% of cis men. So yeah im much more interested in being the girlfriend of a trans guy

>>40450176 (OP)
I'm bi do i count?

>>40450329
Yes if you're a trans man and youre willing to date a trans woman you count. I just feel like there's no real space for st4t on 4chan

>>40450360
Yeah, the threads always die so soon

Desperately need a handsome man to save me

>>40450360
>barely any ftms on 4chan to begin with
>straight ftms will typically just go stealth and live life
>ftms have unironically became more gay over time
>all this leads to an influx of mostly gay ftms using the board
>mtfs here want cis men 99.9% of the time so any straight ftms see it as a losing game
that's probably why there's no space. there was a gayden general recently and it was really busy. but also there's a lot of cis men on this board who chase ftms.
i think straightdens would be more receptive if girls showed they were interested. every guy fears looking cringe.

Yes, but in a monogamous relationship with my gf.

>>40451062
How can girls show they're interested?

>>40451110
i dunno.
i often see girls posting slop on here that says "i wish a big strong CIS man would hold me >_<" but that comes off as corny. i suppose if you have an ideal fantasy with a trans man you could always make it into a thread. it feels nice to be appreciated, makes people more confident.

>>40451149
Hmm, I don't often post on here but maybe I ought to do that then. I think many trans men are hot and would love to have a trans bf

>>40451194
>I don't often post on here
good. this place wrecks you.

>>40451208
Oh believe me I know, this place has given me plenty of brainworms, but I have been trying to work on myself. Now it's my guilty pleasure

>>40450271
flux based?

>>40451149
I just want a man who will love and appreciate me. Someone who will hold me and make me feel safe and cuddle with me to make sure im not lonely. Ideally he'd also make music cause I love going out to concerts.

>>40451546
i can be sometimes.

>>40450176 (OP)
yeah hi let's kiss

>>40451570
Anon youre so forward not even going to take me out first ehehe

>>40451570
kiss me first

>>40451149
mtfs will say its unattractive that ftms never text first but thats because nobody finds us attractive, or at least only the ones who look like girly tomboys. why would we engage if we are likely to be rejected for lacking a cock?

>>40451778
trvth acorn

>>40451778
its fine if you dont initiate at first but if we're already talking and im clearly interested it sucks to always dm first.

>>40451778
Anon you have to have more confidence. Im sure there are plenty of gals who would find you attractive.

>>40451778
The insecurity is more unattactive that anything else

>>40450176 (OP)
Yea I love st4t and I assume the same. I want to date someone who actually likes my body and is attracted to me. Which isn't hard to find irl despite what this board says.

>>40450176 (OP)
Yea i love twinky straightdyns

>>40454118
trans girls have ton of self hatred but why is it a problem for ftms to have similar issues?

>>40454226
its probably unattractive when we do it too

>>40450271
i love trans guys, but i'm too fem for the gaydens that have better options and always figured straightdyns don't want to bottom.

I'm a trans woman, I love trans men, I would love to have a trans bf but I can't seem to find one

>>40454226
Because God forbid men have feelings! Fuck I hate this world, and no matter what they tell you don’t believe them. They don’t care and they WILL see you as lesser

>>40454457
Yes it is

>>40454226
Because confidence is the no.1 key thing you need as a straight man to be attractive. Genuine confidence, not fake confidence, being comfortable in your body and who you are. Obsessing over everything else like height or dick or whatever is a waste of your time, there are women out there that would give you a tongue bath regardless. It's weird seeing other ftms pick up the whininess of incels and just sitting in the insecurities. Leave this cock-obsessed board, realise it isn't reality and you'll get laid.

>>40455438
its not just this board but irl too. everybody wants real penis from a real man instead of plastic from a larping foid

>see what their true colors are on this board on the daily
>still want to babysit failed transbians that despise you and will never see you as a real man
do "straight" ftms really?

>>40455703
who cares if i see him as a "real man"? i seriously doubt the ftm i'm dicking down sees me as a "real woman" either. at this point in transition i've long ago swallowed the pill that intimacy and sexual satisfaction are incompatible with being seen as a woman by my partner.
a lot of things matter way more in life than gender identity. i'll pick happiness over being "valid" any day.

>>40455620
There you go with the whining and the insecurities again, maybe reread my post.

st4t server for ftm x mtf
discord.gg/vyvHwgEDNp

>>40454226
Well self hatred is unattractive in dating no matter who you are.
>>40455620
False "real penis" is overrated

>>40456295
All your post says is to "just be confident bro" as if I can just know how to do that as a dysphoric undersocialized autist. This board is the only place I actually complain about anything on because every other online space is full of ftms who have no problem getting laid or making friends.

>>40456782
most poonahs be hoovering up the penises of men and taking lots of cummies, that's how they can't stop winning

>>40456556
none of the ftms make a move on the mtfs

I love ftms so much but I feel guilty about the extends of my fetishisation. Penis ruins a man. I love every sign and feature of masculinity, but a penis is just disgusting to me, it instantly ruins everything.
I don't mind strap though

i love ftms but ftms don't love me

I'd say I'm a pretty attractive woman based on the fact I get asked out a lot by both men and women. I prefer ftms but even when I do the pursuing they just really don't seem to like me. I wish I could look inside their brain, see what they do actually like. Reading these forums it's always some very vague thing that only reflects back on them. I can only make sense of it that they want a partner that triggers their specific brainworms the least, to the point where it almost feels like there is a third person in your relationship that you need to keep happy. Lots of input, but you almost never get anything back.

>>40450271
I'd let a trans guy take my virginity if he swooned me desu

>>40450176 (OP)
Why would straight ftms be with mtfs
Mtfs hate ftms because they're afabs
Only CIS straight women can love ftms.

>>40455703
why is everyone so mean cant i just want to date a trans guy because im straight and still want to date men but its easier to connect with people who understand dysphoria?
also trans guys on here have a 50/50 chance of being misogynist gooner incels and unfortunately that is my type

>>40458102
>mtfs hate ftms because they're afabs
???? Who are you talking to absolutely delusional

>>40456832
They do in DMs lol

>>40458218
spend any time in a mtf space online and you will notice this is true, especially the transbians.

>>40459339
where

>>40450176 (OP)
>also it will immediately cure any nonsense sepratist ideas about how trans women have to isolate ourselves to find true solidarity

Honestly of the two tboy bfs ive had both of them made me feel more isolated from trans men. I feel like there's just shit ab the tgirl experience ftms don't get. Not in a way i can place my finger on but an essence.

maybe ive just had shit bfs tho idrk

I am but there are no trans women near me. Let alone any that will be interested in a poon.

>>40462159
where are you?
a) across the continent
b) halfway around the world

>>40462185
If by across the continent you mean America, then a).

>>40462190
east or west?

>>40462190
east or west coast?

>>40450271
>>40450329
>>40451570
>>40454199
Hi sirs please use me as you wish I would do anything just for one night with you

>>40462190
east or west?

>>40462224
Your desperation is unattractive

>>40462159
>>40462190
an American pooner interested in trans women? must be my lucky day

The pain of being a relatively tall FtM (5'9) but wanting an MtF that towers over me is felt every day. nah but really I just think a relationship with another trans person could be so special and I lean towards women so yeah... idk is that chaser-y...

>>40462455
either the most based poster on this board if youre a top or the worst of all time if youre a bottom

t. 6'0" mtf

>>40450176 (OP)
I was but then BPD trannies turned me gay now I lust for a platonic with benefits t4t brofriend.

>>40462256
Nooooooooooooooo

what is attractive sir??

>>40462576
ultimate blackpill. i'm never getting my straight t4t bf

>>40462592
Frankly you hogs don’t deserve love. You didn’t get loved enough growing up and now your attention starved little brain has turned you evil and incapable of having an adult relationship with boundaries. The best case is to die alone in a cave somewhere before you infect anyone else.

>>40462646
im sorry anon, i hope i never hurt someone the way your ex(es) hurt you. i hope youre doing better now.

>>40462681
She wouldn’t even let me have friends or she’d get jealous. It wasn’t enough that I moved in with her or married her if I so much as blinked at someone else she’d cut herself and you know what it was selfish and I’m allowed to have friends outside my marriage.

>>40462519
with a trans woman I'd prefer to top, yeah. Tho either is OK, but I don't use the poon for bottoming anyway.

>>40462700
i had a cis boyfriend like this for a while, i wasnt allowed to have guy friends or leave the apartment in anything he thought was too revealing or he'd threaten me and accuse me of being a cheating whore. i may not know how much harder it is to be married to that type of person but i can imagine and i know you didnt deserve it.
im very glad that you were able to get away from her, i know it isn't easy with people like that. you deserve better and i hope you're able to have that now
im sorry if this comes across as insincere, im not used to being genuine on this site.

>>40462248
Nono, you said the continent, I'm from South America.

>>40462768
im crying lmao of course you would be from south not north TT
t. east coast tranny

i dont know if they exist on this board but I'm dating one

>>40462715
Oh you're real as fuck for that. How tall is towering?

>>40462785
lucky

bump

>>40462455
Im over 6ft no exact measure cause I hate doing it
>>40462700
I was gonna make a joke at your virtol post but actually being treated this way totally makes what you said valid sorry anon not all trans women are like that
>>40462785
Show off

>>40450176 (OP)
Yeah, I'm straight and had a straight trans gf. We were both binary though, and found the "transmasc" "transfem" terms a bit retarded.