Thread 40451579 - /lgbt/ [Archived: 292 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:29:26 AM No.40451579
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>be me, a luckshit passoid tranny with money
>meet a homeless man who is surprisingly charming despite being homeless
> local govt gives him free apartment
> help him move in, kinda develop a crush on him
>start dating and do lots of fun/cute things together
>he's my first bf
>a few months later he tells me he wants to open up the relationship so that he can fuck other women
>cry and break up with him
>many months later we reconnect
>he's losing his free housing, about to be homeless again
>heartbroken, but so sad for him

what do? i want to help him, but he hurt me because why couldn't i be enough for him, so i still resent him? what is the right thing to do here?
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7/21/2025, 3:31:55 AM No.40451599
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>>40451579 (OP)
gimme money instead
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:34:41 AM No.40451628
>>40451599
only if you'll be my homeless gf
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7/21/2025, 3:36:30 AM No.40451641
>>40451628
hmmm
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:36:45 AM No.40451646
Don't help him

Trust me. Simply block him forever.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:37:44 AM No.40451657
he's hobosexual and going to use you and/or other women for money until the end of time
many such cases
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:42:36 AM No.40451698
Retarded larp
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:57:25 AM No.40451859
>>40451698
Sometimes the truth is stranger than fiction, anon
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 5:28:40 AM No.40452644
>>40451579 (OP)
Be my sugar mommy, I would never let you down
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:15:08 AM No.40453002
>>40451657
The things 6ft+ men can get away with...
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:22:55 AM No.40453060
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>>40451579 (OP)
I swear you posted this in another thread the other day. Is this who I think it is? Do you live in Seattle?
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:26:03 AM No.40453077
>>40451628
Im game, set me up with a pillow at the foot of your bed and we'll go from there
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:27:20 AM No.40453083
>>40451698
I think I know who OP is. In which case, this wouldn't be a larp.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:30:59 AM No.40453101
>>40451579 (OP)
Maybe you can stop being such a little cunt for starts! How about that?
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 8:53:23 AM No.40453815
>>40451579 (OP)
don't trust him, don't get back with him, don't help him, he's never gonna be exclusive with you, you can't fix him
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 9:10:41 AM No.40453916
>>40451628
nta but i’ll be your homeless gf, all i need to do is come out to my family and i’ll be disowned
)*Kassandra of Ellaphae !wetBJHdekA
7/21/2025, 9:43:49 AM No.40454063
>>40451579 (OP)
you dont owe him anything

he chose to devalue your genuine love and kindness

asking for open relationship hurt you because its hurtful and shitty

if he had told you he had fallen for another person unwittingly it would be a bit different i think; but im biased there because it happened to me- but in your case he just wanted to sleep around and risk giving you stds and making you insecure and everything just upfront for his coomer fun

you deserve better than that; you have worked hard to achieve all you have in life

he made his choice

my advice is to get him out of your head before your feelings hurt you more; before you feel used or led on; before you cant escape and let him walk all over you

it will wreck you

please find someone else

there exists someone far better for you than all of your nostalgia suggests
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 10:54:18 AM No.40454494
>>40451579 (OP)
I am going to be homeless sooner rather than later but I am a transbian so you are probably not interested lmao
Anyway, tell him to fuck off imo, you gave him a chance but he abandoned you as soon as he was able to
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 12:08:16 PM No.40454802
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>>40451579 (OP)
Look I'm gonna be real with you. I work with the homeless daily, and there are two types.

The type that genuinely got swallowed up by circumstances and needs help onto their feet to live well again, and handouts like housing actually help them find work and stable relationships and purpose outside of drugs again. This is the majority of the homeless and why I like working with them.
And the type that will squander anything you give them no matter now much because they fundamentally do not care about their life or others and will not improve it, everything is cyclical with them and they will come back to your services again and again every few months because they trashed their last apartment, relapsed directly after the drug test, etc etc but it's always something they could have just not done if they had any will to lead a better lifestyle or make use of the help they were given. This is the group that makes everyone hate the homeless.

You seem to be witnessing the first cycle of his that you've been a part of. My advice is to not be a part of the rest of them. He will likely go on to blame you if you deny him, because he sees you as his next rightful handout that allows him to waste away just a little bit longer on someone else's dime. That he already threw you away once after you ran out of use for him is the sign you need to see this pattern before it consumes you with it.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 1:06:08 PM No.40454998
>>40451579 (OP)
I'm sorry but for me I never understood this open relationship GARBAGE, if you are in one then you are not into a relationship you are into a non remunerated freelove/prostitution ring and you people are retarded for falling on to such things, and no, you can't bring a homeless inside your house, give him some food, a coin tomorrow, maybe a blanket in winter but unless he starts to do better, escapes homelessness and commits to you FORGET IT.
You people have been drinking the progressive cool aid for so long that you get involved into the most nasty toxic and dangerous situations unnecessarily.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 1:08:07 PM No.40455006
>>40451628
add petplay, a leash and a bowl and we have a kino combination, seriously, trannypets need to become a thing, the world needs "goodgirls"