>>40459701I think its unintentional self awareness.
Theres an element of truth in incel bullshit, that yes, women want an attractive man that can provide. But that doesnt mean if you fail in becoming leonardo DiCaprio its over.
It just means be kind, make us feel safe and secure, treat us to flowers and a restaurant once in a while. The men that understand this, end up in a happy relationship. Walk around look at couples, how many men look like Commander Shepard. None. But the women in their lives are getting what they want, which is often security, reliablity, kindess and feeling wanted