I desperately need to find a way to stop being cis.
Being trans definitely sucks, but being a woman sounds pretty dope (when ignoring misogyny at least)
Is there any way to turn this vain pipedream into a genuine desire?

>>40468545 (OP)
study tissue engineering and neuroscience and find a way to grow an ideal female body and transfer your consciousness to it

>>40468545 (OP)
>when ignoring misogyny at least
the glossing over of something so major cements you as irrevocably cis male sorry gang

>>40468726
Smart. I actually should do this, not for me, but for all actual trannies.
Too bad I am stupid or lazy or stupid and lazy
Still a noble goal

>>40468748
No shit, that much is obvious. At least I am aware of it ig

>>40468748
Being black sounds pretty dope ignoring racism.

>>40468545 (OP)
>when ignoring misogyny at least
the mention of something so irrelevant in current year cements you as irrevocably trans fem gratz blood

>>40468794
its almost like these social structures predate the systems of oppression that utilize them...

>>40468805
You mean the agp "dysphoria isn't real" transbians, or trans women who transition to simply are women?

>>40468881
*be women
Atrocious mistake

>>40468805
>trans fem
go back

I really don't want to be stuck wanting to want to be a woman for the rest of my life and at this point
it might actually be easier to gaslight myself into being trans rather than remaining cis.

>>40470119
I wanted to want to draw for a while because it looked cool but when I’d do it I’d kinda hate it. I told myself I hate it cause I was bad at it and I’d love it if only I could cross the threshold and be a real artist, completely ignoring the obvious truth that a real artist loves the process and finds joy in every small development towards their goal. Turns out drawing is just too slow, loose, and antisocial for me, and I instead found real passion in singing as a hobby. Anyway, my point is don’t force something like this, because it costs such an insane amount of your soul to “get good” at being trans, and even the most dedicated sacrifice a lot of happiness and wellbeing for it. Just go find something you’re willing to get good at and you’ll find purpose.

>>40470176
I really like this analogy. "Don't force it" should be universal advice at this point.
My issue ironically lies in the fact that I am really good at being a cis man while extremely hating it, and whishing I could love being a woman so that I can stop being a man.
I could never be a woman though, which precedes loving being a woman though. No matter how much effort I'd put into it, it will always feel like a performance.
Just wish that weren't the case

>>40470525
If you mean to say that you really wish you could transform into a woman and don’t view being trans as a good enough compromise, then there’s nothing for it. Some desires have to be let go, and that’s most easily done when you allow yourself to focus on other things. An absence is only felt if nothing takes its place, just get busy with something cool and the pride of what you do and the people you’ll meet doing it will bring you far more satisfaction than trying to be something as undefined and unobtainable as “woman.”