>ibs and unpredictable bowel movements despite eating a generally healthy diet
>vagina is too tight and very painful to put anything in
>ftm so no penis
so how am i supposed to have sex? "sides" are i assume a huge meme since all everybody talks about gay sex wise is tops and bottoms. yes straps are an option but it won't do anything for me physically, maybe psychologically if i'm lucky. life would be so much easier if i was asexual

>>40469742 (OP)
sides are not a meme you just have to have threesomes with a top and a bottom

>>40469742 (OP)
train kegals and use a strapless strap

>>40469894
That’s like being cucked without even being in a relationship

>>40469910
vaginal doesnt feel good though

>>40469742 (OP)
>vagina too tight
they make dilators for that, actually
talk with your gynecologist about it

since anal is unreliable if you wanna have physically stimulating sex its either that or strapons with some kind of grinder attachment

i'm in the same boat. the answer is frotting.
also ibs doesn't make anal impossible, get a bidet. made my sex life possible.

>>40472155
Nta but
>vagina is too tight and very painful to put anything in
Start small and work your way up. You'd have to train yourself the same way you trained yourself anally. If it's still too tight, you need to see a doctor.

>>40473707
Ive already seen a doctor about it and they tell you to dilate, which I've also been doing but its annoying to have to train a body part I wish I didn't have. I haven't trained anally yet but putting anything up there is so much easier and way less painful

>>40469742 (OP)
your GI issues are psychosomatic. IBS is a diagnosis of exclusion, not anything anatomically or physically wrong with your GI. it’s from a dysregulated nervous system. the mind and gut are connected so neuroticism is what’s causing your GI issues. treat your mental health issues, do pelvic floor therapy. most of your issues will be solved.

>>40474254
>most of your issues will be solved.
no they are not. there are a pleathora of issues that can cause gut dysfunction.


you only touch the surface.

>>40469742 (OP)
There’s prosthetics with vibrator attachments or ones that attach directly onto bottom growth and can be orally stimulated via suction. You could also just fuck someone then get them to blow you or jerk you off. Experiment on your own a bit and figure out what you’re into.

I'm no expert since I'm a cis guy but my guess is you would probably eventually be able to enjoy vaginal sex if you medically solve the tightness issues

>>40469742 (OP)
is phallo an option u could get a penis if you wanted

>>40475099
why are IBS sufferers always in such denial about this every time someone points it it’s from an overactive / oversensitive parasympathetic nervous system. what did the doctors say is causing your IBS?

>>40475458
>why are IBS sufferers always in such denial about this every time someone points it it’s from an overactive / oversensitive parasympathetic nervous system. what did the doctors say is causing your IBS?
Doctors don't know shit.

Yes you are touching 1 point but gut issues can be multitude of issues that you clearly don't know of.