>>40480180life is never easier when you're meta attracted. it is actually endlessly painful. your relationships all feel shallow because you know that the value they bring is only commensurate with their ability to validate your femaleness. you arent truly physically attracted to anyone. and worst of all, no one ever feels "good enough" because you're only attracted to them by proxy. so this leaves you reluctant to settle down or marry anyone because the attraction and in turn, love, is shallow.