And I'm looking at nearly 5 years years of wasted time in fall.

2 years with her. Nearly 2+ years without her.

I'm thinking of taking a walk to my old town, but I have this feeling I'll walk all that way, and still not meet anybody that could replace my A.

>OP I want to ask you something, how do you think people usually "get over" or "move on from" something?
>Like obviously you said you can't, but I'm wondering how you think other people do it? Can you walk me through the steps they might take?

People are wired differently and are programmed to forget easily. Most people are philanderers but I'm supposed to be with the woman I love.

>>40475389
>OP I want to ask you something, how do you think people usually "get over" or "move on from" something?
>Like obviously you said you can't, but I'm wondering how you think other people do it? Can you walk me through the steps they might take?

People are wired differently and are programmed to forget easily. Most people are philanderers but I'm supposed to be with the woman I love.

This isn't an insult. I think normal people should move on from their old loved ones quickly. It's not healthy to cling like this, but I can't help it. I really thought she was the one.

>>40479788 (OP)
SHUT THE FUCK UP PINNE THE GODDESS SQUAD DIED A HUNDRED YEARS AGO

>>40479788 (OP)
>4+ years without my doro
>Nearly 2+ years without her.
?

>>40479788 (OP)
New doro dough

>>40480330
You're right I messed up the math/post. My point is overall how much of my life I accidentally wasted on a girl that wouldn't care if I died tomorrow.

I wish I had a qt3.14 trans GF who'd cosplay Nikke's for me

>>40480804
>qt3.14
>nikke
Mate you are searching for something that does not exist

>>40480815
What exactly are you implying here anon

BPDemons are the feral maskoff nature of women.

>>40480856
doro misser is a man i'm pretty sure

>>40480917
Yes, but the Doro said she was a BPDemon

weirdo creepy stalker

>>40480852
there are no cute girls playing nikke

>>40480984
Wrong. She's out there and she will love me

>>40479990
Like what do you think are the steps that they follow to move on or "forget"?

>>40481163
They don't need to follow any steps. They just wake up one day and they're no longer in pain about their ex

>>40481330
would you be surprised to learn that it isn't like that? Not for anyone as far as I'm aware. Grief is a process and you have to work through it and take the steps to move on. What do you think those steps might be?

>>40481404
It's a survival strategy. Not everybody is capable of monogamy or the kind of pairbonding love I'm in. People jump from relationship to relationship and even get married in the time I've been lamenting her.

>>40481502
>>40481404
>People jump from relationship to relationship and even get married in the time I've been lamenting her.

That is, they'll divorce one person and then marry somebody else a year later

What's even worse is that I wish I was like this and I might as well because I've lost the only woman that ever mattered to me.

>>40481502
You're wrong. People get over horrific trauma by putting in work. It isn't easy but it is essential. You need to actually put in the work of moving on, or you never will and will waste even more time. This is mandatory for anyone who has been hurt.

>>40481565
What work lol. Normies (which I wish I was one just to be clear) get over it after 2-3 months.

>>40481733
What do you think they do to get over it? Tell me the steps you think they take.

>>40481808
They live their lives and it just comes naturally.

I do the same but I haven't gotten anywhere.

I know the feeling anon. I also wasted nearly 5 years on a bpdemon that also wouldn't care or notice if I died tomorrow. Shits rough and I have no good advice or encouragement for you. I still love her but I've at least gotten to where I won't try anymore so that's something.

>>40483076
>where I won't try anymore

?

>>40483093
Like try to talk to her, give in when she tries to talk etc. My situation is a little different in that she didn't just stone cold ghost it was in and off talking over those years.