I really want to but am nerrvous ): Im scared I will get killed or something. All the guys on grindr that I can link with are hot and white twinks and super fit masc men. should I put a condom on them? I read hiv transmission through oral is very rare. I will be safe if I stick to white men right?

Im 21 btw

>>40482771 (OP)
>grindr
oh shit you're actually going to get murdered lol

>>40482771 (OP)
It's just a dick just put it in your mouth

>>40482957
No I won't. Stop trying to demoralize me. I just want to be safe.

>>40482771 (OP)
You won't get aids you'll get herpes on your mouth. Only real risk.

>>40482771 (OP)
>I will be safe if I stick to white men right?
I sincerely appreciate the ethnocentrism, but any kind of promiscuous sex is risky. People on Grindr have a lot of it and most of them also hook up with demographics that carry more diseases. If you absolutely are going to do this, I beg you to please put on condom on them, even if they protest or it feels unnatural. One bad decision can negatively change your life and it's a risk not worth taking. It'd be much better to try and find an actual relationship, but if you do this, please, use protection.

Get prep, seriously
Also meet up with them first in a public place if possible or tell a friend your going and also inform him about that

>>40483098
I want to do it without a condom, it would be way hotter. That is kind of the whole point, I want to feel his cum on my lips and face. I don't want to suck plastic. However your non troll reply along with constructive advice is how I know I should listen to you.

>>40483107
Is there a way to get prep without telling my doctor im a fag? I do not have any friends to tell.

>>40482771 (OP)
have some self respect fag and get off grindr and get a real man who loves you

>>40483314
I want a real man who loves me but idk where to find one.

>>40483200
>I want to do it without a condom, it would be way hotter.
Mate, I know you're young, but one poor decision for a moment of impulsivity can have serious repercussions. It's not safe and I don't think it's worth rolling the dice and being irresponsible just for a passing moment of pleasure that you can get down the road in a better context.

Also, I fully endorse this anon:
>>40483314
Grindr is unhealthy and there is a reason why they have an HIV positive setting on there you can select. I know you're horny, but there are better ways of expressing it and it'd be great if you could try and put in a little work to find somebody decent worth sharing it with. Please take care of yourself.

WPWW

>>40482771 (OP)
>Encourage me (virgin) to suck dick tommorow!
Just do it. He'll let you, and you'll like it.
>guys on grindr
not the best place to start
>should I put a condom on them?
You should be on PrEP, if you're not on PrEP then you should be using a condom for all anal sex. Oral sex is kind of okay as long as the dick doesn't have any warts or lesions on it.

>>40483430
How am I supposed to find someone. Do you have any solutions?

>>40483489
We have clearly identified the issue "grindr". Now do you have any solutions to find someone? What is the best place to start then?

>>40483519
Any other dating app, find others looking for long term and wait at least a few months before putting out.

is it really that difficult to get to know someone before you suck their cock

>>40483519
>How am I supposed to find someone. Do you have any solutions?
Are you in school? You might just come across someone like that. You could also try Hinge, which is more oriented towards actual relationships. I'll also add that finding someone is probably going to be more difficult, but it will be more rewarding and keeps you much safer. I think patience is worth it. Anyway, I'm heading to bed, but good luck and best wishes. Please protect yourself.

>>40483575
Thanks.