how do i make my boyfriend more dominant & aggressive? i have a relatively high libido & im very attracted to him & from what i can tell i get him horny alot but it feels hard to get him to initiate much without it coming from me. it would be so hot if he were more grabby & rougher. i think (& hope because the other reasons in my head are much worse) its because hes scared of doing something wrong but he can do literally nothing wrong ever hes perfect he could literally kill me on accident or on purpose & id visit him as an angel & thank him & watch over his fate forever. I dont want to make him a worse person obvv. Id rather die than tell him any of this directly, do any of you nonas have experience with subtly grooming your bfs or raising their confidence? Am I just a unattractive failure tranny for not being able to do this innately?

I would like to know as well hehe

>>40487062 (OP)
Just talk with him that you wish he would initiate more on his own, he's probably just inexperienced and shy about it, doesn't seem making him worse to make him more assertive. And doesn't require telling him something weird like being more rapey or something.

>>40487112
Obviously, yeah. If you want something, then make it clear.
I guess being indirect and trying to drop hints all the time is stereotyped as fembrained, if that makes you feel better, but it's not very effective, so just talk to him about it

>>40487062 (OP)
>Id rather die than tell him any of this directly
you are retarded, the one person on this planet you should be able to discuss this with is your partner

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