Does anyone else get upset when cishet men complain about dating? They do not understand the struggle of dating as a trans woman or other queer person, and if they did, they would kill themselves

>>40500692 (OP)
It can always be much worse. This doesn't hold universally, but generally if you wouldn't want people worse off than you thinking about you this way, you should consider being more empathetic towards people who have it better

>>40500692 (OP)
They already kill themselves alot the male suicide rate is quite high, complaining shouldn't be a competition, yes at a base line some people have it worse but if you keep weighing how bad your experience is to others, then only one person in the entire world can complain, and that person is probably 6 feet under

>>40500709
I try to be empathetic, and I usually am, but a lot of them are bringing this pain on themselves by being shitty people.

I bet you think any dissenting opinion on this topic is proof men are assholes and it's all their fault huh

>>40500692 (OP)
how though? i'd much rather than position i'm in now than have to date women.

>>40500692 (OP)
Nah, dating is way harder for cishet men. The standards that women place on us is insane (be at least 6'0", make six figures, etc.). And this applies to both cis women AND trans women, by the way. In fact, I would even argue that trans women have higher standards than cis women.

Women are highly selective, and trans women are no exception. They will say they struggle to find men, but will have dozens of guys in their inbox. There is no shortage of chasers (myself included) who would leap at the chance to date a trans woman. Every woman has options, they just need to choose one. What they really want, though, is Chad, and they won't settle for less.

>>40501815
>fetishize trans women
>why dont trans women wanna date me

>>40501815
>he says, talking solely about passoids and the top 1% of twinkhons

>>40500692 (OP)
I do cus its always
>"bitches just want a. Alpha male"
>Goes on to describe a date where they do 20 red flags in the first sentence.
Like no shit its hard for u? All ur thoughts, interest, and hobbies scare the hoes

>>40500692 (OP)
i become viscerally angry when trans women claim to understand and relate to things that cis het women experience, so yeah i kinda understand you bro

Whenever cis men complain about dating I ask if they've dated each other before... Most say no, so they genuinely don't understand the issues with dating cisgender men. And the worst part? If you tell them the issues, they act like it's not true. They don't want to adapt, they just want the game to have an easier difficulty.

i get mad when they talk about sex

I don't get to talk about sex in polite society, why should you?

>>40502533
i do think things are shittier for men than for females though, dunno how LGBT fits into that dynamic but as a fag the sex talk is annoying

>>40502027
>being attracted to someone means fetishizing them
What a sad way to look at human relationships

>>40502048
Except I wasn't. Don't put words in my mouth.

>>40500692 (OP)
Cishet dating has more expectations imo

>>40504618
if they're not old and fat and they're nice i'll date them.
but chasers want passoids or ethereal twinkhons. i know you do.