help - /lgbt/ (#40505524) [Archived: 191 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:58:04 AM No.40505524
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if cis women are more accepting of trannies then why do they act weird and distant around me? cis men are super nice to me and it's not like I'm doing anything weird. is it how i look? people tell me i pass, they tell me I'm clocky, they tell me I'm pretty, and I've been told I'm mid. oh and I've been told i look like a lesbian

i want more female friends bc everytime i try to be friends with guys it seems like they only want to date or fuck and i just want to be friends and it's so goddamn annoying
idk what to do i feel stuck
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panties sniffer
7/26/2025, 11:59:44 AM No.40505536
>>40505524 (OP)
I want to fuck you yes.
>t chud cis chaser
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 12:01:00 PM No.40505545
>>40505524 (OP)
>if cis women are more accepting of trannies
faulty premise
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 4:22:14 PM No.40507071
>>40505524 (OP)
Cis women are more likely to be performatively accepting of trannies.
People stopped calling me pretty when I passed. Like the fake nice act dropped and then I started making more real friendships.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 4:34:08 PM No.40507146
>>40505524 (OP)
how old are you and where do you live out of curiosity? i ask because even cis women find making female friends hard past a certain age (female friendships in particular are often established based on shared experiences or "rituals" if you will and a lot these happen in one's teens or early 20s) and also there's a huge variation between countries in terms of how women behave. honestly as someone who's been embedded in female social circles before you're not missing much lol i like having a couple of close cis women friends but i don't want to be in an actual "girl group" ever again.
>everytime i try to be friends with guys it seems like they only want to date or fuck and i just want to be friends and it's so goddamn annoying
unfortunately very common and that's why i usually only befriend guys who already have girlfriends. anyway sometimes you just have to turn men down, i had a guy friend before who i turned down three times and eventually we managed to just be friends.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 4:35:34 PM No.40507163
>>40505524 (OP)
Probably just a (You) thing.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 4:35:51 PM No.40507165
>>40507146
find making female friends past a certain age difficult* my bad
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 4:44:35 PM No.40507208
>>40505524 (OP)
I feel like this is a reflection of the variation among people more than it is of you
the other day I posted in passgen and got obliterated
like two days later I went shopping and got called ma'am by the dressing room attendant without a second thought
I'm a sub teacher and a sweet student once informed me I'd been called "that bitch lesbian" by another student
my boyfriend calls me pretty/beautiful while I really don't see it
you're a different people around others who are also all different people; maybe they all just honestly see you in that way they're reporting?
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 4:59:48 PM No.40507294
>>40505524 (OP)
MORE cis women are accepting of trannies cause they wanna pretend to see you as equal, the few men that are accepting are MORE accepting cause they see you as special

Men cause they wanna fuck, question the shit out of themselves through talking to you etc

Women dont really getting anything different from being friends/hanging with you over a cis women.