ive been in love with 2 guys and 1 girl irl
i wanna date a guy so bad but im terrified im fake gay

I'm you

>>40510254
maybe im just afraid of rejection...

>>40510355
It's alright anon, I'm kind of in a similar predicament. I think my friend likes me because he asked me what am I wearing and alluded to being gay himself but it's so ambiguous I can't really tell aaaaaah

Will anything bad besides the rejection come of it? Me and my friend's family are pretty religious so I have to tiptoe around the subject. If yours is anything like that maybe take it slow, if not then have at it :)

>>40510418
lucky
if a coworker at work told me that id die
they say "dont die wondering" but idk what i can do

>>40510461
I think rejection can hurt anon but imagine if down the line they get into a relationship and they revealed they liked you but you entirely missed your chance because of your autismo

put yourself out there, I believe you can do it :)

>>40510521
i know 0 gay people
the only guy i wondered if was into me is banging random chicks on tindr now
how do i even "put myself out there", i dont know where to start, everyone always assumes im gay so its not like im not presenting right
sorry

well at least you arent twink dead

>>40510597
THIS is the problem. gay ppl are really hard to come by.

>>40510597
Well here's the thing, the sad thing, you have to stumble upon someone who's gay. There's no such thing as "putting" yourself out there unless if you're straight (which you're not).

Sorry, it's still possible but it's just really rare, most gay guys aren't going to flirt with you even if they thought you were cute due to the fact that being gay is seen as "le bad" :(

>>40510657
yeah and then there's fucking closeted fags and straights appropriating gay signalling clothing making it all the more difficult.

>>40510245 (OP)
what physical characteristics are you into and are you a top or bottom?

>>40510629
ive never been a twink at any point, (im skinny my face just has no twink qualities)
>>40510657
so what do i do?
>>40510875
my 2 crushes were taller than me, one jock and one skinny

>>40511007
Nothing? Or try to find some alt guys, they're usually a bit or pretty gay desu. My friend is a terminally online artist with these cute eyebags :3

I think the less traditional or normal presenting they are, the better? I'm not saying aim for the weirdest of weirdos but alt people are usually where they are mostly

>>40511007
>my 2 crushes were taller than me, one jock
I don't need to even read more, you're 100% a real certified faggot and I bet you're really cute too

>>40511062
>find some alt guys
uhh
im friends with a short fat guy whos really into girly anime and has a levi pfp? but hes a huge political chud, i dont know anyone else
>>40511110
what makes you say that? im genuinely asking
im really ugly, the only thing ive got close to a compliment was a random guy grabbing my ass on the bus

>>40511156
>im friends with a short fat guy whos really into girly anime and has a levi pfp? but hes a huge political chud, i dont know anyone else
Oh, it's over :(

You could try going out a bit more? Maybe search a guy to love I guess

>the only thing ive got close to a compliment was a random guy grabbing my ass on the bus
It's so not over :)

>>40511156
You don't need to be a femboy to be attractive, real gays will like you regardless and who the fuck cares what the prison fags think

>>40511190
i dont know how to act on your suggestion, sorry
>>40511202
well im definitely not pretty, and idk the difference between a real gay and a prison gay

>>40511806
basically just straight guys that don't get any pussy so they resort to banging guys that look like women but otherwise aren't attracted to men

also don't discount yourself, if you posted a shirtless pic i could tell you real quick if you're attractive or not

>>40511806
>i dont know how to act on your suggestion, sorry
it's okay lol, I hope you find a nice man for you :3

>>40511828
i dont need to post a pic to know the answer
>>40511836
i dont see it ever happening but i feel tortured at work all the guys make me want to kms

>>40512043
>but i feel tortured at work all the guys make me want to kms
wait why is that?

>>40512135
one of them is my age and hes insanely hot
his existence makes me want to cry
guhhhhhh im lonely

>>40512165
ah yeah that sucks anon :(

I think my word of advice is to not do anything lol, work relationships or crushes can be pretty hard to manage though you can at least daydream about you and him :3