Am I doomed to perma-unhappiness? - /lgbt/ (#40511699) [Archived: 520 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/27/2025, 1:37:25 AM No.40511699
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>always going to be unhappy participating in s*d*my although I'm only attracted to men
>women can TELL I'm a "sou uke," aren't interested even if I wanted to force myself to rep and date women (vaginas are gross and physically couldn't do it anyway)
>badly want a baby
Should I just kill myself? I'm actually pretty happy with my body now other than the fact I can't get pregnant.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 1:40:49 AM No.40511725
>>40511699 (OP)
just find a guy with fatherly instincts and adopt
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 1:43:43 AM No.40511747
>>40511725
The problems extend beyond that. Even if I COULD do that, I'd still be unhappy living a life of sodomy. It's inherently degrading. And on top of that like I'd also be somewhat mismatched...I'm highly conscientious most men willing to date trannies, aren't, so I run into a lot of problems there. Huge mismatches which exist because my dating pool is so vastly reduced that ordinary people would not have to deal with.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 1:56:52 AM No.40511856
>>40511747
>It's inherently degrading
what did you think being a woman would be like, seriously if you're dating a man it will always be degrading because he will be always stronger than you
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:10:26 AM No.40511941
>>40511856
It's more degrading than being a real woman, I'm a guy and not supposed to be this way and getting degraded worse by a guy.
I'm crudely attempting to ape being a woman despite that
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:15:44 AM No.40511975
>>40511941
why can't you just shut your brain off and enjoy having a loving partner, if you're a weak pathetic tranny you're a woman anyways so just go with the flow
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:16:18 AM No.40511981
>>40511975
Try to finish reading the post I made here instead of dipping halfway. >>40511747
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:20:17 AM No.40512015
>>40511981
that's just pointless brainworms stopping you from being happy, the sooner you learn that the sooner you can move on with your life into a positive direction
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:22:05 AM No.40512027
>>40512015
No it's not "pointless brainworms" that has a very real effect on the quality of the relationship if there's a mismatch which there will inherently be.
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:27:01 AM No.40512062
>>40511747
If both vaginas and sodomy are gross then go celibate or only do oral, frotting or other non-penetrative sexual activities.

>>40511856
Think of yourself as a “better woman” you fill the role of a woman better since you are inferior to them, making you even more inferior to your male partner. Like a perfecto master-slave relationship, you live for his happiness, become sissy and submissive.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:29:33 AM No.40512086
>>40511747
>And on top of that like I'd also be somewhat mismatched...I'm highly conscientious most men willing to date trannies, aren't
What.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:33:18 AM No.40512120
>>40512062
Hey I didn't say that. Please read my posts before responding to what you imagined I said. I don't think sodomy is gross, I think it's degrading. I still desire it and enjoy it.

>>40512086
Most men willing to date trannies aren't exactly first on the dating list for cis women. This isn't a dealbreaker in and of itself but it means there are inherently more problems that come with dating men than cis women would have, because cis women can afford to be more selective.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:35:23 AM No.40512134
>>40512120
Okay then develop a degradation fetish.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:41:04 AM No.40512170
>>40512134
It's a moot point. You're just throwing crap at the wall and hoping it sticks regardless of whether or not it's actually applicable. I already enjoy sex. It doesn't matter and won't fix the fundamental issues I have with it if I have the fetish or not. You don't have sex 24/7
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:42:52 AM No.40512184
Sodomy is degrading because some old book says so?
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:44:06 AM No.40512194
>>40512184
No, that's not why I think that.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:45:40 AM No.40512212
>>40512194
Then why?
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:49:22 AM No.40512234
>>40512212
In no particular order
>straight sex in general (even for cis women) is degrading
>a crude imitation of that is also degrading
>debasing myself for another man's pleasure
>not supposed to use my body that way
>most people are disgusted by that and even "accepting" people are when it comes down to it, they just pretend otherwise
"Yeah I like being hit and grabbed and squeezed and hurt and to have a dick inside my poophole. How on earth could this be construed as degrading?" Please think about it for one second
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:53:32 AM No.40512262
>>40512234
If you think that’s degrading just look at those furries and diaperfags out there on the internet. There is always gonna be someone more fucked up and degenerate than you, at least your condition is legally recognized and considered legit by most western countries.

And you do a better job than a cis women because most of them wont willingly indulge into giving their partner their butthole.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:55:38 AM No.40512276
>>40512262
>If you think that’s degrading just look at those furries and diaperfags out there on the internet.
Thank god I don't get off to pooping diapers, instead I get off to having my poophole stimulated in a slightly different way. Give me a break.

>at least your condition is legally recognized and considered legit by most western countries.
Legally but everyone's disgusted by it.

>And you do a better job than a cis women because most of them wont willingly indulge into giving their partner their butthole.
That's not better, I want to get pregnant and I'm doing something that almost no cis woman would ever dream of doing independently. I'm so far outside of normality and I can never get there no matter how hard I larp.