I have been thinking about this a lot. I want to be a crisis-boy. Basically someone who you reach out to when you are having a mental breakdown.

I also want to eventually be married to someone who is mentally ill and requires a lot of work to maintain the relationship. I want my future wife to be crazy enough that even after years of us together, I still can't quite figure her out.

>>40574417 (OP)
You say this until you meet a borderline

>>40574489
do you think I would have reached this conclusion if i'd never met someone with borderline

>>40574531
Idk why someone would want to date one then unless it was some plan to manipulate them or something

>>40574642
manipulate them into being loved and protected

>>40574717
I wish this was real and not larp. Sooner or later a guy wants a family and then what...your dick will lead you elsewhere even with good intentions. Not true every time ofc but it's always possible and you can never really know

>>40575256
not a larp
also a family doesn't have to mean having kids. 2 people who need each-other is a family imo

>>40574417 (OP)
I do this but to manipulate them into improving and loving themselves

>>40575349
You know what I mean, the vast majority of men want biological children at some point. Then what happens? :p

>>40575692
You adopt or get a surrogate. That's what I did anyway.

You want someone who has low standards and won't leave you if you abuse them.

>>40575692
ill be too busy taking care of my bpd wife to think about stuff like that desu

>>40575751
Exactly. Which I would honestly be ok with if I knew he'd never leave me...

>>40575751
I kinda see where you're coming from, but you are describing something unrelated to my weird desire
>>40576231
describe your mental and behavioral state in detail please