How do I get over him

I wish I knew what to say.
Suffering, I guess. But even that just feels cheap. (Oh yeah, and endurance.)
Most people have cheap and shallow responses to these questions. I’m circumventing this but admitting defeat.
I wish the best for you. As best as I can wish, for a presumed stranger.

>>40577587 (OP)
You need something new in your life that makes you feel alive and engaged and fulfilled. That can be a new relationship or it can be something else

>>40577697
Unironically everything reminds me of him
Wtf do I do

>>40577705
does this remind u of him?
https://youtu.be/npuuTBlEb1U

>>40577705
Change of scenery, change of pace, change of routine. Don't just do the same stuff with a big piece missing or you'll be hyperaware of the "missing piece," build a new life that never involved him

>>40577587 (OP)
you can get over him by being a good girl for me

>>40577781
I'm a fag anon

>>40577587 (OP)
Donkey kong?
Iunno, play country again or something.

Bumpo

>>40577705
Seek new experiences

>>40578251
Idk how

>>40578260
start by evaluating the things you can do, but which will be difficult. pick one that will not bankrupt you. learning how to work on engines for example is tough and probably wont bankrupt you

>>40578260
Zone of proximal development. Whatever it is you like to do, go a little outside of your comfort zone. Home drinker? Sit at a bar for an hour or so. Sex? Try grindr or comparable app. Like to dance? Sign up for dance class. Like a certain video game? Get involved in the community.

Take your existing interests and expand them in new ways that will grow you, or find entirely new interests that will grow you. It's one part distraction one part self improvement, and those are the two essential ingredients of getting over someone

>>40577587 (OP)
You won't

>>40577587 (OP)
You don't you just acclimate to it