>be me stealth tran
>Still hang out with some people from highschool
>There is someone new to me the past 9months in group
>Literally the only one who doesn't know I'm trans
>Know he would be supportive

On one hand I don't particularly feel like it because it's not something that's really come up and also I don't really break stealth for cisoids as a general rule. But on the flip side I'm worried he'd take it weird if he found out because it would mean he's the one person in the group I don't trust him when I do I just also like my privacy. Like all it would take is one drunk joke from anyone

>>40578314 (OP)
He'll find out at some point, and that's ok. The notion that he would feel insulted you didn't tell him is silly, if he really understands then NOT telling is more relatable to him, because bringing it up is probably hard for you. (in his mind)

Are you mtf or ftm?

>>40578314 (OP)
No problem with telling him, though if you think he might tell people you do not want to know it's kind of over lass, pack your bags.

>>40578362
MtF but it's like all guys except for me in the friend group lol

>>40578379
I only know him through these friends so there really isn't anyone for him to tell. As the upside my main gripe is just that I usually only tell on a need to know basis or other trans people I trust . And this situation is technically not either and is mostly just because it feels weird to have a friend group I was 100% out and didn't have to stealth in that I now do. Maybye I should ask my other friends what they think.