how do I get over the fact that i will forever feel lesser to other trannies/twinks/whatever that have smaller upper bodys? anytime you see a character that is 'cute' and 'feminine,' their upper body is always tiny, and the 'masculine' and 'dominant' 'alpha' characters always have big upper bodys?
ive always had a big upper body, ive been on hrt for almost 3 years and its gotten way better but it still looks..not normal. ive been passing alright lately but most of the time when i catch myself in the mirror i get depressed.
I've heard losing a TON of weight can help but i have a really hard time due to my medication.
is it gonna be ok?

>>40579607 (OP)
yes, it's gonna be fine! remember the best debrainworming you can do is finding and participating in communities where there are cis women with a bunch of different body shapes.

>>40579642
ty!
ill be the first to admit i dont hangout with really any cis women, besides the ones at work. i suppose that might help but all my hobbies are really really male lol. i do hangout with friends alot, it just so happens theyre all trannies.

>>40579607 (OP)
I feel you, my ribcage kind of broke my life
try core exercises if you havent already

>>40579607 (OP)
Yep felt. It's basically a game of proportions so try and make your lower body bigger to balance out your upper body. Shit sucks but that's the hand we're dealt.

>>40579607 (OP)
All troons have a big upper body

>>40579607 (OP)
If you don't have that dog in you it doesn't matter how many natural gifts life gives you, you'd squander them all. If you do, it doesn't matter how many it withholds, the answer is either to pursue what you desire and put your whole pussy into it or stay home and stop complaining about how different things would be if just one variable was different.

I feel like this character looks exactly like me w/o my glasses

>>40581866
trvke

>>40579607 (OP)
whether its gonna be okay depends on you. plenty of cissoid women have bizarrely large upper bodies. my sister is one of them. if losing weight is hard then you can try getting bigger in your lower body instead. however the important change happens inside your head. if youre passing then youve already made it, now you just have to heal

>>40579607 (OP)
>boymoding
>tranny bangs
>super short jean shorts
fakemoder

>>40581857
based
>>40581866
grim

>>40579607 (OP)
Yesterday I was scolded for "flashing my tits out" but I am literally flat, think she was just mad and making fun of me.

>>40582081
What does this have to do with the thread