>>40594724Optics have been a concern, as I need to maintain appearances for my work. No one really wants to work with an old hon. But since Im literally manmoding on HRT, it hasnt affected me socially or professionally. Everyone just sees me as feminine/andro looking guy, which is just fine with me. Personally, HRT has been more effective of an anti-depressant than actual anti-depressants for myself; it is totally worth it.
As far as being on informed consent treatment, it's my business and no one else's. I have got bullshit from some people at pharmacies on a rare occasion, but their opinions literally dont matter. They're miserable losers.
Having the resouces to not give a fuck helps out too. Just that, time has worked against me in my late 20's that included broadening of the shoulders. Full facial feminization would look incongruous to my frame. Im having to adjust my own expectations from FFS, and find a decent compromise to keep the overall look natural. In short, FFS wont fix everything, if you wait too long imho.