how do i stop craving male manipulation? i can tell when they do it, the condescension, the infantilization, the gaslighting, the way they pick at my brain and act like they know my thoughts more than i do
it's all so obvious but i just cant help but willingly fall into the trap every time and i wish i wasnt so weak to it

t . tranny

>>40602206 (OP)
Sounds like a skill issue in all honesty. Also you enjoy it, as per usual for a bottom. Why would you not want to crave it?

>>40602282
because even though it feels good in the moment, it leaves me broken and dependent in the long run
i want to stop being taken advantage of

>>40602342
You will never be able to change. You should accept your fate sooner than later.

>>40602345
id rather not
this is probably something i need therapy for but i wont be able to afford that for a long time

>>40602206 (OP)
stop calling transbians male like that

>>40602206 (OP)
develop your prefrontal cortex
(NO WEED)

>>40602381
but im already 25 and ive never smoked weed in my life

>>40602206 (OP)
it's inevitable for some of us i'm afraid. most of the men i'm drawn to are manipulative assholes.

>>40602381
i rejected this advice and started smoking weed at 15 - now i'm a lateshit 4chan tranny. don't be like me.

>>40602206 (OP)
Cis girls learn use it agaisnt men very young. You are simply not woman and desired enough, if you were you would become numb to such attention. My 11 years old oldery have boys begging to spend time with her but she is not in puberty yet so she is only interested of playing with her toys

>>40602473
*11 years old sister

>>40602206 (OP)
i had a trans boy do this to me once and i have never recovered

>>40602206 (OP)
you need to learn to hate and revile them for their predatory behavior, it's easier if they've taken something from you, imagine what your life could've been without their interference, the opportunities they've shut you out from, once you see them for the roaches they are it's easier to avoid them

>>40602473
this board is unironically going to make me kill myself
one moment ppl shit on me for passing and being too desired and then the next its im not woman enough
which one is it at least the men are straightforward with wanting to ruin me
>>40602493
how do you do that without falling into misandry

>>40602389
oh shit i dunno.
i know nothing about you, but self discipline helped me with mental stuff. start small, brushing teeth, sleeping at reasonable times. work your way up. working out etc etc.
its impossible to impart wisdom but i still try because i dont want them to go through what i have.
i still might be gay, but atleast im not a faggot anymore

>>40602531
your asking people on a board already filled with mentals (4chan) then asking the most neurotic people (sexual devients) for help. what did you expect? Learn to be happy by yourself, no one else will fill that gap. if you try to you will end up worse than when you started

>>40602206 (OP)
honestly its prob best to just find a nice man who can give you that but in a caring and loving manner. my bf manipulates me sometimes but its always for my own benefit. some of us just arent meant for independence i think so its better to just find a partner who you can love and support and who in turn can give you structure, love and care

>>40602473
>she is only interested of playing with her toys
sigma female playmaxxer grindset

>>40602531
>how do you do that without falling into misandry
just keep in mind that being manipulative isnt inherent in being male, a lot of men are decent people who don't try to exploit the vulnerabilities of others, knowing that men can be good people should help you hate the shitty ones even more

>>40602554
this is the only place i have social interaction with online i genuinely cant relate anywhere else
>>40602579
i somewhat had that before but my bpd ruined it
>>40602629
this is prob best the best advice so far thank u nona

>>40602847
sorry to hear that nona ;~;