I never thought I'd pass, its so overwhelming sometimes

Why is society so fucking misogynistic? I was never treated super well but it's completely different now

When I infodump and correct people they ignore me even more, I look at how people treat me in a very grounded way and I KNOW I'm being treated differently

There's also a lot of male centered pick me whores out there that are evil

I dress modestly, why are people so gross and creepy?

People see me as "easier" when they know I'm trans

What makes people sexualize certain women over others?

>>40605754 (OP)
>I dress modestly, why are people so gross and creepy?
>People see me as "easier" when they know I'm trans
you dont pass as well as you think

>>40605754 (OP)
Welcome to being a woman. Women were found in studies to be seen as talking more than male cohorts, even when they haven't said as much as he has. If you're attractive and it sounds like you are, then many men will silently crush on you. Knowing you're trans may make them see you as more accessible. Similarly many other women may resent you, so don't share your status too much. If they know they know, if they don't they don't & if they suspect you then you join the ranks of other women who are tall. Watch how your women friends deal with these things, maybe ask a trusted one for advice. You don't want to shut down your social development over this even though you are totally correct for being overwhelmed by misogyny. Feminism and sisterhood can really help you to cope, be a girl's girl & the misogyny from men will matter less. Do be wary of it from other women though!

>>40605787
Hey shut the fuck up snake lmfao

OP never internalize these 4chan comments, they're gaslighting you. Or let them bait you into posting pics. Listen to your aunty on this shit, you don't need these people. And getting away from 4chan means that much less misogyny in your life.

May I suggest listening to any of Jamie Loftus' podcasts? Read some Mary Gaitskill as well. Listen to a little Le Tigre.

>>40605894
malebrained but based

>>40605754 (OP)
>People see me as "easier" when they know I'm trans
you are easier than an actual woman

>>40605894
even though you acknowledge women are basically just as misogynist you're talking about sisterhood. this shit is thrown out the window the moment there's a decent excuse.

>>40605754 (OP)
i dress like a whore i'm treated like a whore

>>40605965
Whoa hold your horses, no they're not equally misogynist you ditz. Men are way more likely misogynistic *and* have a position of power over you. Women can be misogynistic but how do you think they got that way? They're victims too. When OP is ready she can reach out to them but that's years down the line. Right now she's still figuring out why boys act funny around her for fuck's sake, she should focus on getting to know herself and other sociable women first and foremost. When she's more mature then she can try to uplift self hating women. If she gets stuck on it now she'll exhaust herself and neglect her own social development. Trust me, I wish I had someone to tell me this when I was just starting to pass.

>>40606041
women can have positions of power over other women just as easily as men

>>40606076
No, not really. Men have more social & actual capital still. Women can have positions of power over women, but not as often as men do & men are more frequently misogynistic.

>>40606041
oh okay so you're just a retard. should have known when you said fembrained was sexist (even though it's used just as much to demonise as its equivalent "malebrain").
men are also victims of a society which turns them into the emotionally dead apes we know them as today. doesn't really excuse their shitty behaviour does it? they're part of the same problem, just like most women are. "self-hatred" as an excuse can only go so far. women do this shit out of the pursuit of power and xenophobia, the very same reasons you act the way you do. you're still just directing hatred outwards while desperately clinging to an all-good ingroup, it's just that your ingroup covers ALL women while theirs covers a few 'good' women 'like them'. this kind of nonsense has only ever hampered societal progress.
rather than doing this dumb bullshit why don't you actually address the problem, which is sexism (both misogyny and misandry), something that pretty much every normie reinforces.

>>40606245
Oh for god sake, you're just looking to bitch. I gave good advice, you're just upset I don't participate in this "men are mars, women are from venus" routine aren't you? Yes sexism is bad. But we live in the shadow of patriarchy, grow up & deal with it lady.