How do I grow more accustomed to It/its pronouns? In my head there's a logic behind it, you're reclaiming a slur, but whenever I see somebody using them I can't help but cringe, roll my eyes and think they're immature or emotionally unstable. Haven't been proven wrong in those departments, to be fair, but still.

trutrans nonbineys use they, they/hefabs use it and heccin vxlid nxoprxnouns

>>40609627 (OP)
I use she/her and it/its. It's not about reclamation to me, it's just how I feel. I don't blame people for not getting it, it only bothers me when people are rude about it. Thankfully my close friends understand.

>>40609627 (OP)
No advice just felt. Idk if I could use it it's pronouns just because that was one of the big things used to bully me in highschool. I'd literally rather use a neo pronoun. Lowkey might be a trauma response, but anyways fortunatetly the only it/it's I know have a giant list of pronouns to choose from so it doesn't matter.

>>40609713
This Tru NBs just want to be treated like a third gender and realize they them is the easiest way to get people to do so. Also imo they/them is less the NB pronoun and more of an everyone pronoun anyways. I kind of get the logic behind neopronouns at least xe/xir the idea that NBs deserve a pronoun just like other genders but idk it's just hard for people to learn grammatically so unrealistic.

>>40609760
How do you get over the fact that it it's is for objects usually. It it's always made me feel like slime under someone's shoe

>>40609627 (OP)
cull anyone who asks you to use them

>>40609760
i have no idea what the fuck you meant by this because half of the words are your pronouns

>>40609932
I don't think of it as objectifying necessarily. I used to, but I got over it when one of my friends started using it and normalized it over time. And then realized I identified with the label myself.
>>40609977
I use "I" to refer to myself if that clears things up. I don't refer to myself in the third person. I have not found someone I trust enough to use that kind of language with. Feels oddly intimate and personal.