100% of tranners would be happier if they accepted they will never be indistinguishable from their cis counterparts. You will always have somewhat awkward body proportions, clockable mannerisms, hobbies and interests that are extremely atypical for cis people of your identified gender, but that's okay. True passoids don't exist.

>>40611758 (OP)
but that would mean all of my work would have been for... nothing?

>>40611763
All your work has gone towards being able to live as a woman who is trans, which is better than being a man. But you will never live like a cis woman does

>>40611808
a woman who is trans? come on now, lol. you and i know better than that