I'm not typically clingy at all but I can become very much so when I develop feelings for someone... I don't get it... isn't that a BPD tell-tale sign...

>>40612608 (OP)
bpdemons arent valid so

>>40612608 (OP)
Yeah it is a BPD sign. My ex was SUPER clingy when she got into me. It was actually kind of cute. Then we got married, and the knives came out. She wasn't clingy then. BPD, yes.

>>40612738
I don't really express it, I just feel kind of anxious if we're apart for too long

>>40612608 (OP)
oh look another sperg that thinks having the woman mental illness will make them trutrans
kys ^^
>t. bpdemon

>>40612608 (OP)
Mental illness isn't real it's just an excuse to hurt people or slack off and get away with it.

>>40612608 (OP)
Psychologist here. It depends on a bunch of other symptoms. It could as well be just some sort of complex ptsd or trauma, insecure attachment or even dependent personality disorder or limerence, etc.

In any case, you should talk to someone, I used to be the same and things got better with that and work on my side. If you are actually interested, I can help with some book reccs and if you have more details to leave here, orient you to a potential direction disorder diagnosis wise. Just don't take it literally, because I might be wrong as well, we are just retards on 4chan after all...

>>40614050
yes book recs pls

>>40614050
It's not really severe or toxic clinginess, it's more that I just want them around more whereas with others I don't really care