how do you cope with the fact ywn get to be a mother?

>>40612777 (OP)
I'm thankful for it.
I've never once desired to have children. And pregnancy in specific disgusts me, the very idea of having another being grow inside me is horrifying to my very core.
One of the reasons I'm thankful to be a tranny and not a cis woman.

>>40612777 (OP)
Just gotta try harder anon

goon, usually

>>40612777 (OP)
I had an unpleasant childhood so I’m not bothered by never having kids

>>40612777 (OP)
cope and tell myself my bf actually will wanna marry me and adopt children instead of panicking and wanting to be a bio dad and leaving me for a cis woman

>>40612777 (OP)
i used to cry over ts then realised i wouldn't want kids if i was cis either lol
my alternate reality afab self 1000% pooned out bc she's based like me

>>40612787
can't decide if this is faketrans or fembrained

>>40612849
this is actually trutrans af wanting to be pregnant and have kids as a tranny is rapehon tier. every cis woman my age makes it sound like she'd rather die

>>40612777 (OP)
i feel very sad, but if i was a cis woman id probably pay for a surrogate anyway because pregnancy is terrifying and very hard on the body. desu im holding out hope for science to allow XX egg cells from moids for this purpose

>>40612777 (OP)
Good. I have junk DNA

>>40612807
i think i would like to adopt one day and i'd be okay with it, but it still makes me sad i'll never be able to have a child that has my eyes

>>40612777 (OP)
I'll adopt if I want children it's not that big of a deal I believe

>>40612849
it's fembrained until the clock strikes midnight on their 30th birthday, that's when the switch flips for ciswomen

>>40612849
>can't decide if this is faketrans or fembrained

everyone feels diferent about pregnancy and children

>>40612979
not really. it's more generational. the current generation of millennial and zoomer women are all psyopped into hating children and being anti natalist psychos that celebrate killing their unborn babies to own the patriarchy or whatever

>>40612939
im not sure how to feel about not seeing my features in my children because my bf and parents are beautiful but i am hideous and it's probably good i won't make kids that look like me

>>40613032
>not really. it's more generational. the current generation of millennial and zoomer women are all psyopped into hating children and being anti natalist psychos that celebrate killing their unborn babies to own the patriarchy or whatever

I have found a wide variety. Several high school cis + het friends, one other trans guy (we both started HRT in the late 00s) and one enby one (post op) are all having kids. I have a kid. I am indeed incredibly pro-abortion for anyone that wants one though.

many people who don't want kids these days are just too poor for it. for most people there is no free childcare, no parental leave, house, money put away for medical expenses or college. plus a general feeling of doom about how the world is going. the environment, politics, the economy.

>>40613032
oh, plus a complete lack of the proper support structure in the absence of a stay-at-home parent. everyone's boomer/gen x parents are still working these days (and usually also toxic as fuck). People don't live in multigenerational households near extended family. Grandparents and aunts/uncles should naturally step in for babycare but nobody's doing that any more.

>>40612878
because she'll lose her freedumb and not be able to get drunk on white wine and get plapped by Europeans during her "need to travel" years

>>40613366
idk man im almost 24 and i would definitely be nowhere near ready to have kids. i think it's good people are waiting longer. i know so many children of young parents too and they're all horror stories

>>40613377
Depends on how prepared they are. Some girls are responsible enough and actually know sufficient child psych to get things rolling

Financial problems, modern dating, 4th wave feminism and lack of religiosity (and, really, how all of these are tied together) really damper down the need 2 breed

>>40612777 (OP)
sour grapes antinatalism

>>40612777 (OP)
I drink.