>be troon
>family won't call me "she" maybe because I don't pass well enough?
>omg you know your aunt's husband's daughter is trans too? but in the opposite way around she's transitioning to a man
>oh really?
>yeah she transitioned like 20 years ago
>they're calling him "she"
>maybe it's one of those that isn't really transitioning or changing appearance at all and accepts all pronouns
>meeting this pooner for the first time
>actual burly bearded man with a baritone voice, works a hard labour job, unmistakably a man
>his family and mine still call him "she"
>they all act like they're super accepting
grim

>>40614069 (OP)
i think pronouns/names are not a hill to die on with relatives especially. a lot of people are egotistical weirdos who will be supportive up until the millisecond you ask them to change their behavior the tiniest bit. if it's someone they've known/raised since birth there are also usually a lot of sunk emotions and pride there that are not worth fighting against.

>>40614069 (OP)
This is no-contact worthy.

>>40614349
that's what it seems like it is for him. he moved overseas and only visited for 2 weeks for a 5-yearly family reunion and most of them havent seen him in 9 years he was saying

>>40614069 (OP)
People who fuck up pronouns for passoids are willfully retarded.

Grim.