How do I tell if I'm attracted to men or not? I know I'm not attracted to women but I strongly suspect I'm not gay or a straight tranny. This is important to me because I don't want to do blackface for actual trans or gay people.
I'm not really visually attracted to men besides the dick and the pits, everything else it's "what he can do to me." Muscular men are hot because they look like they can pin me down easier. But I don't think fit men in and of themselves are attractive.
The fictional men I'm attracted to, it's "I think his assertiveness is erotic" and "I want him to hurt me," it's never "he's really sexy [physically]."

you're just fembrained, female attraction is a lot less visual, that's why dick pics never work

>>40615808
Dick picks would work if they were big. 7+ inches. Or authentic moaning/cum splattering in videos.

Are you sure I'm not AGP? Is there any proof that I am "normal for women?"

>>40615132 (OP)
if you want sex with men you are gay:3

>>40617013
But AGPs also want to have sex with men.

>>40615132 (OP)
This is called autosexuality. Read Phil Illy's book 'Autoheterosexual'

>>40615132 (OP)
i mean im a straight tranny and that sounds like my sexuality, though very occasionally i will experience direct visual attraction
>inb4 meta attracted agp

>>40617872
It's called autosexuality.

>>40617031
GayGPs

>>40618074
that sounds very difficult to explain to normies without sounding bad so im gonna stick with straight

>>40618321
Agreed, but read Phil Illy's book. It will help you understand yourself better

Only an autist would be open about being autosexual

>>40617845
But I don't like women. I'm not heterosexual

>>40619279
Yes, if you're exclusively attracted to men (but only with yourself involved) that would be autohomosexuality.

>>40619300
It's not normal to want yourself to be involved?

... gayGP lol. i didnt read anything else in this dumpster of a thread. kys faggot op or waow, giga-based, whichever applies

>>40619311
It's not normal to only feel attraction to the sex ur attracted to when you're involved. Most people are attracted to other people specifically, not just what that person can do to them or how they can make them feel.

Does fantasizing about being a woman in a sexual situation turn you on?

>>40618542
oh i googled this and realize you think i transitioned to jerk off, what the fuck

>>40619380
uhhhh that's not what I said. almost nobody transitions to jerk off since estrogen causes ED

>>40619300
that's different than autoandrophilia how?

>>40619371
>Does fantasizing about being a woman in a sexual situation turn you on?
Not in and of itself no. It's the same as when I fantasize about being a make uke.

>>40619488
Autoandrophilia as described is exclusive to females in the way autogynephilia is exclusive to males.

If you're a male fantasizing about being a male in a sexual situation, it's not really a fantasy is it? Same with AGP. When women are "AGP" that's just them liking looking sexy. It's not a fantasy. So they're materially different.

>>40621087
Autobisexuality then? Read Phil Illy's book. I'm not trying to cast judgement, just trying to help you understand your sexuality better. The book was helpful for me

>>40622893
whats interesting is the way gay guys have AAP and lesbians have AGP

I think I'm not really attracted to men, I'm just an autosexual and have favorite people because I'm BPD. How would I even describe my sexuality if someone asked? Because "autosexual" isn't really something you say but "gay" or "straight" doesn't really apply. And I'm not bisexual either. Should I just say "fetishist and narcissist?"

>>40623495
asexual autist will do just fine

>>40623537
But I'm definitely not asexual in the slightest. Gosh I hate that word because it's meaningless or the person using it usually just doesn't know how their sexuality works. I know and I'm not falsifying myself that way.

>>40623546
sex takes 2 people though
>not feeling sexual attraction to anyone.
>a person who is not sexually attracted to anyone
autosexual is a subtype of asexual imo

>>40623594
But I am sexually attracted to *what men can do to me*, which they...do do during sex (and I do like dicks, their scent, etc.) and yes I very much enjoy sex. I'm not remotely asexual

>>40623610
then you're gay bottom

>>40623686
But I'm not genuinely attracted to men. Like I said. I'm not gay. I don't sound gay.