Another trans girly wanted my gf and I to meet her third, sadly I told my gf about this and she said her social battery was drained. My gf and I agreed I can just go without her, since the fellow trans girly is my only irl trans friend , and previously we had gone on double date so meeting her third would be fun. Anyways the third for whatever reason couldn't travel as he intended so the plan was canceled but since I still wanted to hangout I suggested we meet for coffee with her gf. We agree on this and the day comes and her gf is unable to show up as she is tired from working so it is only me and the fellow trans girly. Well I expected coffee to only be like an hour maybe two hour max affair but it was a full 4 hours of just chatting. It was probs the most fun I have ever had getting coffee, and now I have a crush on her. I don't think her throuple is open and anyways I really have only known her for a couple months so admitting to a crush now would be a little weird, and I know my gf would definitely be against being poly, so I have to get rid of this crush, does anyone have any tips.
>>40620211 (OP)This sucks. I would feel so unwanted and unloved if I was your girlfriend. I hope she leaves you and finds someone who deserves her.
Also this girl you were hanging with sounds like she's looking for FRIENDS not a hookup. People like you are why I feel no community in the trans community. You see it as a hunting ground, not community. I miss having friends who don't want to fuck me. I hate it. I hate you and I hate who I was back when I used to live like you
>>40620301Assumptions much I am asexual, so it isn't really about anything like fucking but you go girl. I know this is a stupid crush and I hate myself for it, though I do love my gf so much, it's just now I also have a crush on someone I really shouldn't have a crush on.
>>40620373I don't understand you but try not to break anyone's heart
>>40620422Gotta live like garbage to learn what living like garbage is like and that you shouldn't do that
>>40620211 (OP)Very brave asking for poly advice on 4chan. But my advice would be to stop fantasizing about what you can’t have. Break up with your gf if you really want to do poly. You can’t bring an unwilling person into it.
>>40620211 (OP)My advice is for you to become monogamous.
>>40620532No. No you really don't!!!!
>>40621624I am monogamous, that's why I want to get rid of the crush, cause I want to keep my friendship and my gf.
>>40620422i mean isn't this pretty normal?? The people i hate the most have the same bad qualities i used to or still have, and isn't that the same for everyone?
