Bros there's a trans girl I've been dming thinking about meeting, do you think she'd ghost me if I told her to not tell anyone I know that she's trans? I don't want my friends to think I'm gay if I go and actually meet her, i really wanna go meet her but my friends finding out I'm into trans girls would be a disaster I'd never hear the end of it, do trans girls find requests like this insulting?

>>40621555 (OP)
Trans women tend to hate chasers(people like you) so yes. I would definitely ghost you

>>40621652
What do you mean I'm not a chaser, what do they want, people that are comfortable telling their friends that they're dating a trans girl? But I thought they wanted to be full women

>>40621555 (OP)
If she is going to out herself as a tranny then she's not relationship material. That proves she isn't committed to being a woman. And beyond that, when your friends find out you're forever going to be a queer no matter how straight you think you are.

Your family will give you side eyes at Christmas. Your future partners will leave you and call you a fag. You'll always have people looking at you differently.

>>40621688
It's not that deep, but I'm from a conservative country and so is she (3 hour car ride away), so you have no idea the banter you'd be subjected to if your friends found out you fucked a trans, we get along well though but damn I wish the stigma aspect wasn't there, otherwise I don't care

>>40621555 (OP)
I probably wouldn't say it like that. I dunno I would think you should be able to feel out her opinions on whether she likes strangers to know she is trans. I would say probably most transwomen don't go around blabbing it to everyone but it depends.

>>40621555 (OP)
i mean it'd feel bad to hear, but i'd get it. the main thing to remember is whatever the stakes are for you they're higher for her and/or she was already experienced it. which also means she might be able to help you cope if need be.

in any case i would be honest with her that you feel scared about it. and if she does find it insulting, better to get it out of the way with than keep up a lie

>>40621688
>not being stealth proves she isn't committed to being a woman

bizarre where blanchard leads
afar those planted seeds
leeched upon my veins
in flesh made vivipary
to take root in my brain
and turn me then to vanity

>>40622662
Blanchard was a hack and agp isn't real