>>40625715 (OP)Are you here to convince me, or yourself? Because the fact is it's pretty much the other way around. A lot of "straight" women are incredibly into other women.
It's not true that sex toys are all exactly phallic. The most popular ones are a bit alien shaped, shaped like a rose flower, or other stuff.
As for evolution, try explaining to me why lesbians get more into other women during ovulation: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-021-02171-w
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103107000741 *
Homosexuality is perfectly in line with evolutionary theory, which is more complicated than you imagine, because of the existence of alloparenting. Gay people would be substitute parents when someone in the family died. There was evidence for this happening in real time among third-gender roles in Samoa: https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/were-only-human/the-super-uncles-of-samoa.html