>Be me nonbinary 18 year old
>Start dating cis gay guy a couple years older
>He showers me with compliments and adoration and that he loves me more than anything else and that I changed his life
>Rapes me
>I break up with him
>Timeskip 1 year
>Now mtf tranner girlmoder
>Start dating trans lesbian a couple years older
>She showers me with compliments and adoration and says she loves me more than anything else and that I changed her life
>Rapes me
>Also I find out she groomed my friend years ago
>Break up with her
>Timeskip 1 year
>Now nonbinary mtf androgynousmoding
>Start dating bi enbie my age
>They shower me with compliments and adoration and say they love me more than anything else and that I changed their life
It wouldn't happen again would it

>>40630951 (OP)
I don't believe that you were actually raped. You probably gave verbal consent each time. Just because you didn't really want it, or you decided retroactively that you didn't, doesn't mean that it was nonconsensual. You did this to yourself, whore.

>>40630951 (OP)
i dont think it’s probably the saying they love you and showering you with affection thats actually a sign but i think its very understandable that you’ve become uncomfortable with it given your history
i hope it doesnt happen again nonnie

>>40630951 (OP)
the only thing this means is that you need to stop being fucking gay

>>40630951 (OP)
thats fucking awful im so sorry

girl take some ju jitsu courses and maybe carry a purse pistol idk

>>40630951 (OP)
anon, men can't be raped

>>40630951 (OP)
>It wouldn't happen again would it
It never happened to begin with. Likely your own hatred for your identity is making you dislike being completely physically open with somone and your BPD is twisting that into a delusion of being raped.

If you consented and weren't refused the opportunity to leave then it wasn't rape. Disliking sex or having bad sex doesn't make you unable to consent

>>40630951 (OP)
sorry to hear this nona. tell them ypur concerns, dont bottle this up. lovebombing is definitely a red flag, but thats it, a flag. you never truly know.

>>40634383
your dammit

>nonbinary
>raped by bf
>raped by gf
I'm sorry your parents didn't give you enough attention, AFAB.

>>40634414
shes amab dumbass