Thread 40716392

I wish I could bottom since I like the concept of being fucked by a guy, but in reality it seems like an absolute nightmare. I cant understand why anyone would bottom when you have to get fingered first (gross) and then you have to try and stay as calm as possible while a guy pounds you or else youll experience extreme agony.

>>40716392 (OP)
it doesn't hurt if you do it right
the bad part is that it also doesn't feel good

>>40716405
If it doesn't feel good then why does my bottom keep cumming in like 15 seconds when I'm only halfway in.

>>40716405
>the bad part is that it also doesn't feel good
Exactly. I forgot to mention that part.
>it doesn't hurt if you do it right
Yeah i know, but youd have to be perfectly relaxed for it to be done right. But I doubt id be able to be perfectly relaxed when not only doing something that intimate but also being fearful that if i dont stay calm ill feel severe pain

>>40716452
its very cute to hear that your bottom loves you that much i hope you teased him for cumming so fast and then kissed him while he was embarrassed

>>40716452
I wish i could be like how your bottom is. But whatever your doing to him clearly isnt the norm since most experiences Ive read seem to be painful rather than pleasurable

>>40716452
because you're lying

>>40716528
I'm actually not lol. They cum way before me every single time. What do I have to gain about lying, I don't really know what people get out of it either but that's been my experience.
>>40716478
Of course.
>>40716493
I mean, it can be painful. But if you use plenty of lube and are stupidly patient, it shouldn't hurt.

>>40716554
>What do I have to gain about lying
convincing more people to bottom even though it doesn't feel good by gaslighting them into think they're not normal for not liking it

>>40716565
I'm not trying to convince anyone lol, as I said I don't know what people get out of it either and I'm genuinely asking why it's so pleasurable for some people.

Your not using lube, and if you're that uncomfortable, your probably not meant to be a bottom.

>>40716554
>I mean, it can be painful. But if you use plenty of lube and are stupidly patient, it shouldn't hurt.
But theres so many bottoms who went through all that setup and still said it either hurt or wasnt pleasurable. I dont get it.

>>40716575
It's because fagots suck at sex. If fags where so great there would be more fags.
Ban same sex marriage, because fags are mentally ill.

>>40716593
ive never had sex before, im just going based off all the experiences ive heard about. and tbf id probs be uncomfortable in any sexual situation

>>40716392 (OP)
You dont really have to do either of those things
You need to get clean which can be gross, but if its not easy just dont do it and change your diet

If your ass isnt injured then relaxing isnt the hard part, its constantly having to make tiny adjustments so that his dick goes in at the right angle

>>40716565
>gaslighting them into think they're not normal for not liking it
Just because tons of people feel pleasure while bottoming doesn't mean that people who don't aren't normal.

>>40716392 (OP)
>you have to get fingered first (gross) and then you have to try and stay as calm as possible while a guy pounds you or else youll experience extreme agony
what the fuck are you talking about

>>40716924
how come some people feel pleasure while others dont? are some people just born that way or what?

>>40717008
genetics