Thread 40735948

Another Saturday night home alone without a trans gf

>>40735948 (OP)
another saturday night alone with my trans girl body and no bf

with peace and love, pretty much all tgirls are desperate and easy to take advantage of. this is on you

>>40736054
but i'm also deeply paranoid and take kindness as me being set up for a trap

>>40736054
>pretty much all tgirls are desperate and easy to take advantage of
Is this bait? Trans women have the same standards as cis women, if not higher standards. They want 6'0"+ Chads, and they all have guys in their DMs. The suggestion that they have low standards and that there is no competition for them is simply false.

Besides, I reach out to trans women on the dating apps frequently, and I get no responses. Meeting them IRL is not reliable since they aren't exactly easy to find. And besides, they already get approached and hit on by other guys several times a day just like cis women do.

>this is on you
Fucking how?

>>40736230
every guy i know i met irl (i'm not on any apps). maybe you should work on making sure you make an impression so we'll want to get together sometime?

>>40736335
>every guy i know i met irl
Where? Like randomly at the grocery store or the gym? At events? Bars? It seems like there are so few places where it's considered appropriate to hit on strangers.

>>40736465
bars parties etc mostly
never met a guy at the grocery store but i did meet a guy once at the post office

>>40736487
>bars parties etc mostly
I was afraid of that. I don't drink alcohol and I'm not big on the party scene.
>but i did meet a guy once at the post office
I'm guessing he was exceptionally attractive in order for that to work out for him

>>40736530
yeah he was really tall and he gave me his number..i texted him later

>>40736541
I knew it. That confirms what I said about trans women having the same standards as cis women and wanting 6'0+ Chads.

>>40736556
that wasn't the point i was trying to make..even if he wasn't 6'3" i might have texted him since he seemed nice

>>40736580
>pretty much all tgirls are desperate
>just be really tall

>>40736630
i'm not sure i understand your point
yes tallness is attracted in men but it's not the only point

>>40736733
Earlier in this thread (idk if it was you or another anon), it was argued that "pretty much all tgirls are desperate and easy to take advantage of." In other words, they have low standards. I contrast that to your anecdote about falling for a random guy who hit on you because he was exceptionally tall. My point is that trans women do not, in fact, have low standards and are not, in fact, desperate, despite what anons on this board frequently claim. Therefore, me not having a trans gf is not by my own doing, in contrast to what that first anon suggested.

>>40736769
it wasn't me... but i agree i don't have low standards. you don't have to be exceptionally tall just not too short to be a man.
you don't have a trans gf because you just sit here and complain instead of going out and meeting one of us

>>40736827
>you don't have a trans gf because you just sit here and complain instead of going out and meeting one of us
I already try to do that. Trans women aren't exactly common, even in a large metropolitan area like where I live. How am I supposed to know where to go?
>u don't have to be exceptionally tall just not too short to be a man
Maybe that's it. Maybe I'm just "too short"

>>40736876
how tall are you?

>>40736916
Not tall enough. Very short. I suppose that explains my absence of a trans gf, doesn't it?

>>40736933
i need to know an exact height in inches so i can have an idea if it's true or not.
as for finding us i think you just go to the right kinds of parties?

>>40736946
>i need to know an exact height in inches so i can have an idea if it's true or not.
It's true.
>i think you just go to the right kinds of parties?
I'd need to know the right people in order to get invited to the right parties.

>>40736959
yeah that's true how can you meet the right sorts of people?

>>40736988
I wish I knew!

>>40737004
yeah i'm thinking you should go find us
maybe at the right kind of bars?

>>40737041
>yeah i'm thinking you should go find us
I would like to
>maybe at the right kind of bars?
Is that it? Bars? I don't even drink alcohol. And do trans women even want to be hit on at bars?

>>40737061
yeah most people at bars go specifically to socialize. you don't necessarily have to drink although it would be a bit weird not to.

>>40737097
Going to a bar alone feels...lame. Any time I have gone, everyone else is in couples or groups. Maybe it would be easier for me if I met trans women's standards.

>>40737119
well ideally you'd invite a friend out with you. it's also a statistical thing-what if you don't see a trans girl that day.
i am still not sure how you don't meet our standards?

>>40736124
hey cutie hope you're doing ok :3
too bad i'm too shitty and ugly for someone cute like you to even talk to me :|

>>40737128
i'm having a meltdown night but hi friend.

>>40737126
>i am still not sure how you don't meet our standards?
I'm too short

>>40737164
you won't even tell me how tall you are?

I miss her so fucking much, bros

>>40737152
:(
when things are going really, really shitty they tend to get better ngl...
you got something to soften that meltdown freindino? i tend to blast ebm at ear unfriendly volume personally... like it blows the pain away somehow idk

>>40737196
i'm trying to sit and keep myself from freaking out and spiraling again i cried for like 45 mins last night feeling worthless.

>>40736230
You just have to be interesting and passionate about things and open. You really do not need to be tall or chad
>t. 5'9 chubby painfully mid dude who's had a lot of success

>>40737171
It wouldn't make a difference, and I may as well spare myself the ridicule

>>40737220
:(
wish i could hug you and tell you that shit gonna fix itself but am depressed af and it would feel like a lie...
you seem like someone that will get things right though

>>40737257
i'm trying really hard its just frustrating sometimes all of it timed really poorly for me.

>>40737171
he's probably like 5,5

>>40737273
isn't shit always timed poorly?
i'd bet good money on you getting stuff fixed though desu

>>40737476
maybe. i've lost interest in food tho and dunno how much it'll come back even after i fully heal.

>>40736230
They have creepy weird men in their dms lol, not chad. Most of them are so desperate for someone who isn't a creep. I've had an insane level of success and I'm just some guy. I can guarantee you that their standards are not as high as you think.

>>40737616
>I've had an insane level of success and I'm just some guy
Ok, how did you do it? And how tall are you?

>>40736230
Despite being a transbian I'd fold if a guy was literally just nice and kinda straightforward

>>40737697
6'4

>>40738363
hello i am a trans girl do you want to talk to me
you are 10 inches taller than me!

>>40735948 (OP)
me too anon but im a transbian so i dont deserve love or happiness or anything nice

>>40738373
See what I mean anon. It's that simple, just do that.

>>40737747
I've noticed a lot of people like this. Just literally be friendly with them and treat them like humans and they'll initiate.

>>40738387
>just be tall
its over

>>40738387
dude i need to talk to you i bet your cock is at least 8 inches
can you imagine what that would do to my pussy

>>40735948 (OP)
So? That means you have the opportunity to go out and have fun or stay in, watch movies and get pizza. Having a tranny gf means you can't go out cause it'll cry the moment you step out of the house for being a bricked up honmoder that's being stared at and you can't stay in because it'll cry about being lonely and incapable of making friends or being loved.

>>40738434
perfect where do i find one

>>40738434
some of us are pretty and capable of being in public without crying