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everytime i see a hot tranner it makes me depressed. not in the "i wish i was her" kind of way but in the "this is the exact genre of woman i'm most attracted to and but i'll never be able to pull also i hate myself for being a faggot" kind of way. anyone relate? how do i overcome this

pic related. god i hate being a fag

>>40981477 (OP)
yep. I get this with every attractive person I see not just trans girls. I think the only option is suicide

tfw you will never unload on the bulge of a beautiful woman

>>40981491
yeah it happens with everyone for me too, but it's most acute with trans girls. they feel the most unattainable for some reason. its like the more i'm actually attracted to someone the more it makes me want to die.

>>40981505
forgot pic

>>40981477 (OP)
I "overcame" it by realizing I'd never be anyone's choice trans or otherwise. Just waiting around to die, running out the clock, etc.

>>40981477 (OP)
why can't you pull a hot tranner anon?

>>40981477 (OP)
i channel that feeling into imagining her making fun of me and thats kind of hot

its worse when the attractive person is around you physically and you see how everyone around them is like putty in their hands and they are aware that they are the top of the sexual hierarchy and you are a bug to them.

>>40981477 (OP)
>anyone relate
No. Hot trannies make me feel invigorated.

>>40981556
desu i think the biggest reason is that i feel a lot of shame about being attracted to them so i avoid even the pretty trans girls who have liked me.

part of it is like the "you're a faggot and everyone's gonna know" thoughts but also i feel like i don't like trans girls in the right way. doesn't help that i did get close to a lady a few years ago that i had a kind of faggy dynamic with that really really worked for me. was always confusing because i saw her as a girl but i loved when she'd make fun of me and call me gay. she liked to play both sides.

i'm trying to change my attitude and embrace what i like nowadays.

>>40981477 (OP)
Become more attractive or settle for an uglier troon. This is the lot in life of every man, trans-attracted or not.

>>40981630
just accept what you're into and own it, anyone who cares what you like isn't worth you considering their opinion in the first place
just don't be a bottom chaser unless you know troons that are into that because ts can be so exhausting

>>40981655
>Become more attractive
>settle for an uglier troon

>>40981655
there is no settling if nobody likes me as I am, I'm simply bound to be alone forever

>>40981477 (OP)
You should settle for an ugly troon. Us ugly troons need our chasers.

>>40981677
all trans girls are beautiful, I'm sure you are

i have this but its transbian depression

its not just that they are attractive, its that they seem like actual women and i feel like, well i dont come off as much as a woman as they do. so they wouldnt like me. in fact they probably think im gross and make them look bad. they feel like a different class of person to me altogether.

>>40981677
Ugly tranners usually hate chasers like the plague. Idk what it is

>>40981689
Thanks anon <3

>>40981670
i lucked out and am a top & (mostly) a dom who just enjoys some degradation on the side. if i just get over the shame the world is my oyster.

>>40981677
ig i probably didn't mean to say hot in my OP, just "hot to me." it's more about a vibe. i genuinely do believe there's someone (multiple people in fact) for everyone & you'll find your person(s), as will i. wagmi

>>40981738
of course <3 you deserve it

>>40981477 (OP)
>how do i overcome this
stop caring about labels and societal bullshit. i literally don't care if anyone knows my trans girlfriend not only has a bigger cock than me, but tops me 90% of the time.

>>40981477 (OP)
im an average guy who managed to pull some of the cutest girls I could find. If I can do it anyone can.

>doesn't feel absolutely MOTIVATED upon seeing a hot tranny
You need to get your T checked my nigga in Christ, maybe get on TRT.

>>40981806
why would you be motivated when nobody is loyal and they all hate you behind your back

>>40981818
Damn, maybe just get on HRT instead sis.

>>40981833
and have to live as a foid? I'd rather kill myself

>>40981753
She's so fucking hot, who is she?

>>40981864
annaisadoll/daddyyaches on insta

the key to being a woman is to have no browbone and a round chin. all other elements dont matter just have these two things

>>40981477 (OP)
There was a girl I saw on this board a couple years ago who's genuinely one of the most gorgeous people I've ever seen
And she had the same niche interests as me
But I was a sadsack and physically a piece of shit at the time so I never engaged
Then I spent two years grinding self improvement and came across her again earlier in the year and was confident enough to get to know her this time
We clicked hard and fast and talked all day every day for months
Until she changed up and randomly ghosted
Man, did that shit fucking hurt. I thought I'd never be good enough, then for awhile I was, but in the end it didn't even matter.
Idk whay my point is here. I guess that I relate to the sentiment and despite trying to get better shit still sucks. Oh well, gonna have another shot now

>>40981806
It's really disheartening when you find out they are all either transbians, living on a different continent or already happily in a relationship.

>>40982886
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one

>>40981477 (OP)
unironically sucks for you op, but stuff like this is unfortunately normal for the board.
I have this situation where I'm a 3rd worlder who can't get SRS and this means I can't date because dating without SRS leads to only getting boyfriends who want to suck your dick or stick it in their butt, and I'm bottom dysphoric - so I just stopped dating.
it's really quite sad because I lucked out with my face and my voice is great, but I'll stay alone

>>40981630
I mean, it is pretty faggy to like penis. But we should not be ashamed of homosexuality, its fucked up

>>40981630
Moid goes through a small fraction of what trans girls deal with every day, falls apart.
Many such cases.

You know what's really depressing? They are prostitutes. You are thirsting over prostitutes. You could "pull" them no problem, you just need to let go of your sense of self-worth.

The solution is to spend less time online, or at least less time online gooning over thirst traps.

Prostitution right or wrong is a whole other discussion but nobody is having a romantic chaserbrained long term relationship with these whores, some of them think they are, but they're easy marks, the chaser version of "I think the bartender liked me!" guy

I had a S tier tranner as a fwb and we had lot of sex. Now she has a cut her dick and is a relationship :/ I wish i could feel her just one more time

>>40981477 (OP)
I understand. Trans women are so hard to find, especially one that is a non-op passoid. If you get rejected by a cis woman, whether it's your fault or not, there's another decent one to make your moves on which isn't the case with trans women so you're a lot more nervous around them than cis women.