Thread 41020922

There is no “community.” People love to push that line, but unless you live in a big liberal city, it doesn’t exist. If you’re in some rural nowhere or in a country that hates you, there’s nothing waiting for you.
Online “community” isn’t real either. If you don’t already have a following, you’ll just get ignored as a bot or a fed. The doors are closed, the cliques are sealed. Nobody is going to hold your hand or drag you in.
So what’s left? Independence. Stop waiting for others to save you, because they won’t. People will leave, people will drift, or there were never people to begin with. The only constant is you. Get rid of the helplessness, get smart, and rely on yourself. That’s all you’ve got.

>>41020922 (OP)
im in a big liberal city do i continue looking for a 'comnunity'?

I like being alone, loneliness is redemptive and inherently good, where’s the furthest place from this "community" I can go?

>>41020922 (OP)
real. irl tranny "community" only exists if you were already friends with trannies pretroon or you live (or ideally still go to college) in one of the big blue cities and have the confidence to make friends at dyke bars and clubs and concerts and conventions and parties, which you usually already need to have friends for anyway. there's always the polycule if you don't tho, especially if you're in the pnw (ew)

>>41020922 (OP)
Good post
It's a shame that I can't get rid of the helplessness because of my health issues
And the only community is here