St4t forever ruined cissoids for me.
How do people even date these chasers? How do you not have brainworms about being so grossly fetishised by someone that doesn't even remotely know your struggle? I don't wanna be paranoid about my boyfriend trooning out or stealing my HRT (this has happened before). It fucks me up to see my tranny friend on dating apps and how she's treated. The endless waves of dl guys with wives, all the weird crossie faggots, I don't miss any of it. Even the actually straight guys will leave you for a cis woman when they want kids or feel like they've earned an upgrade. I've started to understand why older trans women always warned me so much about them.
I've encountered no such bullshit since someone recommended me st4t. All the dates I've had, I was genuinely treated like an equal human being, there were no weird lies, games or figuring out if someone is a repper or not. There is just something about st4t that just makes sense to me. Ever since I've started dating my current boyfriend I've felt things I've never felt before. There is something so touching about someone that understands, went through the same hurdles, the fact we know and understand each other without either one of us having to explain. BUT having him be really masculine to contrast me. Since then I've shilled st4t to all my friends and those that got into a st4t relationship all report just how much sense it makes to them and the dynamic between them. They're just happy and animated and I get to hear all the cool shit they've gone up to. It's like brainworms and insecurity melted away for them.
I've encountered no such bullshit since someone recommended me st4t. All the dates I've had, I was genuinely treated like an equal human being, there were no weird lies, games or figuring out if someone is a repper or not. There is just something about st4t that just makes sense to me. Ever since I've started dating my current boyfriend I've felt things I've never felt before. There is something so touching about someone that understands, went through the same hurdles, the fact we know and understand each other without either one of us having to explain. BUT having him be really masculine to contrast me. Since then I've shilled st4t to all my friends and those that got into a st4t relationship all report just how much sense it makes to them and the dynamic between them. They're just happy and animated and I get to hear all the cool shit they've gone up to. It's like brainworms and insecurity melted away for them.