>>41309268 (OP)
porn
i never really liked it that much. i also didnt watch porn
much better things my hand can do than choking. you can feel their face as you make them fall apart. you can squeeze their chest, trail a nail down their spine, put a finger up their ass, smack that ass, grope it. underrated erofenous zone is the ears, the inner thighs. even the hands if you are gentle and know what to do. there are a thousand and one ways to use your hands to make your partner melt beneath you, and one of the lowest on my list is choking. I only do it when a partner asks for it but its so boring. My ex only liked it because her ex was a monster and beat her up, she sometimes needed it hard.
its strange. i was only 18 and my first regular partner was a 35 year old fem bottom, on paper it sounds so bad, but he taught me how to give love and receive love like you are worshipping. how to use my hands, my mouth, my body, what to do to women and men both to take them higher. i think its a shame people these days have such corrupted minds that they dont want a sensual and slow love. my greatest regret with my ex who i loved very deeply is that i could never pass that to her; she only ever wanted the 'closed hand'. Once I read that for every silk-gloves hand there must be a closed, mailed fist to deliver a crushing blow, but i dont believe that. I think the highest pleasure is found in the hands of a true believer who can see their partner as something mechanical, in a sense, something you can deconstruct with a trailing touch. like playing guitar - the most beautiful songs that capture the heart are not power chord shreds, but delicate, precise, skilled motions of fingerpicking. the same principle applies when you make love: its a race to take each other apart, such a delicate art, to learn the schematics of a person, to know where to touch, what finger to drag, to pull, where to unscrew them and leave them in some elysian bliss.
Choking is for niggers.
