Tldr I'm touching on a married woman as a closeted lesbian and she won't leave him despite saying he is abusive. Specifically she goes on and on about how she hates him and all the horrible shit he's done but won't leave him. He even walked in on us kissing and there were zero consequences like he left but she let him come back and they're back to normal. I don't want to keep fucking around if she's not actually gonna leave him. Not necessarily because I care (I was down to be just fwb but she want(ed) more) but because she's lying and gets jealously upset if I am nice to other women even though she is literally married. Basically what the hell do I do in this situation, what would you do? She is extremely attractive just a little crazy and she was my best friend before the sexual turn.
sister she is stringing you along with the emotional bait and gassing you up, you are both 'bad people' because of the cheating but what if she was a neglected woman whom you were saving by kissing? then you wouldn't be bad people and your not bad people because you are you. probably like 50 percent of dudes dont really don't give a shit if their girl is fucking around with another girl either, it doesn't count. these things never develop into relationships and if they do thats even worse.
